Tell Romania

THE TRUE SOURCE OF HOPE IS ‘JESUS’

“When we come to the end of ourselves, we come to the beginning of God.
 (Billy Graham)

‘For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour who is Christ the Lord’.  (Luke 2: 11-14)

A little one, eyes dancing with excitement repeatedly asks: ‘how many sleeps to Christmas now?’  Christmas 2024 will hold secrets of broken hearts who sit alone listening for a simple knock at their door, painful memories as they gaze at an empty chair; the quietness where once the infectious laugh of a little darling rang through the room, now silenced forever.  Time for me to pause, to be in the hush of His presence, to be so still within my soul, I hear only the soft whisper of reassurance.  This is my time when I am totally alone with my thoughts but more importantly when I am totally alone with my Lord.  Each day dark clouds overshadow many hearts, the dark shadows of pain and loss almost unbearable. I need to be alone to whisper their names, to actually feel the quiet air of the atmosphere where if I reach out my hand, I feel His touch, hear His voice whispering ‘Be Still.’  Billy Graham also wrote in one of his famous quotes: “When wealth is lost, nothing is lost. When health is lost, something is lost. When character is lost, everything is lost.”  Let us embrace Bethlehem in our hearts – our teams share the beauty of the Rose of Bethlehem; different outreaches touching the blackness of terminal illness, poverty, lack of purpose, abandoned children, the forgotten in Cighid…

Precious young Alex Toma was called home a few days ago.  Brother and Sister Roma and their family are devastated, they need to feel the love and support of our prayers holding them close in our hearts.  It is an incredibly difficult time as they come to realise the immense loss of their beloved son, Alex, who was just seventeen years old.  Alex suffered a long and challenging journey during the past seven years, facing his struggles with resilience, being in a coma and confined to his bed. In his final weeks, he endured persistent fevers, while our dedicated Emanuel Hospice team watched his condition worsen each day.  May our hearts touch his family as they try to navigate this unwanted road of an extremely painful loss. The days of adjusting ahead will be difficult.

Take a moment to pause, to pray for little Noemi, a precious four-year-old girl who has two older siblings and is lovingly cared for by her mother. Noemi is facing the challenges of AGS syndrome, which significantly impacts her mobility. She was supposed to undergo brain surgery, a glimmer of hope for better health, but the doctors have sadly informed her mother that they cannot proceed due to the considerable risks involved. This news has left her mother heartbroken, and she truly needs our support and prayers during this incredibly difficult time.
Diana is a young patient suffering from kidney cancer and spinal metastasis; we have written about this particular case previously.  A young lady with two young daughters; sadly, Diana’s condition is slowly worsening. Sister Adriana visited her last week and was shocked by the deterioration.  During the past months, Diana’s condition remained stable. She is divorced from the father of her daughters, living in fear due to his aggressive nature. In her present state of weakness, she has expressed deep concern that, after her death, the girls will be cared for by their father. 

Alina is the eighteen-year-old patient with osteosarcoma whom we wrote about in our last prayer update.  Alina has now been admitted to hospital and is in fact in the ICU, her state of health is rapidly declining.  During the past weeks, it has become apparent that she has grown closer to God. She requested for someone to read the Bible to her. We pray that through listening to God’s word she will eventually find her peace with God before it is too late.

Sebi was abandoned by his mother and subsequently lived with his alcoholic father.  Sebi longed for one thing, simply to be loved, to feel someone’s arms around him, assuring him that he was wanted, loved and important even to someone. The home was very basic with little or no food. Any surplus money was used to purchase alcohol.  Most days, Sebi had no food in his tummy; the pangs of hunger were part of his everyday young life.  His young body lacked the nutrients every young boy requires to grow, to build strong bones. Tell Romania have supported this little one and our silent prayers have been answered.  Sebi has just celebrated his tenth birthday. The best birthday present he could ever have has been his adoption into a loving family.  Praise the Lord for all His goodness.  He has now moved to a Christian school for Roma children, and his behaviour has totally changed. God’s love and presence has brought hope to a little boy who longed for only one thing – LOVE.   A new beginning, a new family, the Lord brought hope in the total blackness of a hopeless situation.  Please pray for Sebi, a difficult beginning to life, yet God, in His love turned that around.  Sebi has accepted the Lord into his young heart.  Please whisper ‘Sebi’ when you pray.

Nataniel is a sweet little six-year-old with two brothers.  They have the blessing of loving parents who are sadly experiencing health issues.  They come from an extremely poor background and are overwhelmed by Nataniel’s diagnoses of autism. May the care and support we offer take them on a journey where they will come close to God as they embrace His provision.

Mihai has just celebrated his twelfth birthday and is earnestly seeking to find the Lord.  He is in need of love as his mother abandoned him and his two sisters and one brother. The children are in urgent need of warm food, clothes, shoes and a comfortable room with heating.  The father loves his four children and is willing to work, however, owing to his culture and background, he received a meagre wage.  Food, clothing, shoes are a luxury for these children.  Will you remember these little ones this Christmas.  A Christmas without food, toys! My heart aches as I write!

Pastor Andrei is busy making preparations for the various Christmas events to be held in Sofronea Baptist Church.  His one desire is that the village folk will come and find the Lord, the Saviour of the world.  Andrei asks for wisdom in leading his church to serve with a whole heart.  Hamilton and I are humbled by the response to the Romanian Flood Appeal of our home church, Coleraine Baptist.  The support raised has been forwarded to the pastoral committee in Arad County overseeing this project.

Iochebed gives thanks to the Lord for His gift of life in the birth of our November babies. Tell Romania offered support to the mothers with food, echography and gynaecological consultations, shoes and clothing, firewood, furnaces, a washing machine.  Maria, a mother of twin girls aged ten years has been diagnosed with multiple sclerosis. She was advised against further pregnancies owing to the risk involved.   Maria came to Iochebed informing us that she is in fact pregnant and to express her concern, questioning keeping her baby.  Following counselling, Maria made a decision to carry her baby full term.  Gaby accompanied her for necessary tests/treatments where it was confirmed her baby is healthy, although there appears from the scan some evidence of abnormalities. This family needs our prayers. 

Sinziana (33) has eight children between the ages of four and seventeen; she is pregnant with her ninth child. Her husband has been living with another woman and she has made a decision to divorce him. Sanziana found it difficult to accept her pregnancy and under our advice made an appointment with an obstetrician. During the year of 2023, Sanziana suffered a stroke and now has a stent inserted into her heart. At the end of October, she will have a consultation with the doctor who will assist her in giving birth to her baby. May God give grace and love to this mother to enable her to accept this child and love him as a blessing in her life and raise her nine children alone.  FOOTNOTE:Sinziana gave birth to a baby weighing 2.4lbs on 1st of November. 

Simona (35) has five children. Simona has suffered four miscarriages in the past. This pregnancy is not without risk as she has a haematoma in her uterus. May God be with Simona and help her give birth to a healthy baby. Narcisa is mother to a one-year-old and is now pregnant again.  Life is difficult for Narcisa and she cannot embrace this pregnancy as a gift from the Lord. Pray for her.

‘THE LORD HAS COME’

‘For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour who is Christ the Lord’.  (Luke 2: 11-14)

The Miracle of Christmas never ceases to amaze as we stand in awe and wonder praising God for Heaven’s Child, the Babe of Bethlehem.  Let us encapsulate the theme of hope given to the world through the birth of Heaven’s child. Bethlehem’s stable became a throne for the Babe of Bethlehem.  May we enthrone Him in our hearts!

We wish to acknowledge with grateful thanks the large consignment of boxes transported to Romania throughout October and November with the final consignment leaving this weekend.  Emanuel Hospice; Casa Grace; Iochebed; Sofronea; Kingdom Kids; Roma children; Cighid Adult Orphans – no one is forgotten.  Thank you.

Monkstown B.C. (Natalia Montgomery) – Seventy-nine shoeboxes –  Sofronea.

Agape Fellowship, Belfast. (Carol Foster) –  Cighid Adult Orphans. Foundations.

Sister Barbara McCook – Casa Grace, Cighid, ‘Our Dora’.

Sister Iris McKerr and Threads, Ballycarry – Iochebed.

Kingdom Kids received from Auntie Sheila, Beth, Patsy, Margaret, Ruth, Deidre, Mavis, Pearl, Christine, Nicola and Louise.

May the Christ of Christmas fill your heart and home.

Shirley, 06 December, 2024. (42 B Bernice Road, BT36 4QZ)

Step out on the waves that would crush you

Step out in the storm that would hush you

And you will find as you touch the crest you feared so much

And walk on its breast, there was One walking there

The whole night through, walking, watching, waiting FOR YOU. (selected)

We live in a world where the reality of tragedy knocks on many doors.  The knock can come suddenly and without warning.  During the summer recess many changes occurred, yet in all the changing scenes of life, the ache of a grieving heart, the suddenness of news one would rather not embrace, the mercies of God inspired me to ‘try’ to be a breath of fresh air to those facing the howling winds of destruction, sinking in the unending streaming rains of life. The bond of friendship in Christian love has stirred my heart and renewed my spirit (at times overwhelmed) to come alongside those experiencing desolation, trouble and tears. Lives reduced to broken pieces, homes reduced to rubble by cruel war and overwhelming floods, searching for shelter, refuge, who long for hope and even a morsel of bread and a welcome cup of hot soup.  They stand holding their earthly possessions in a tiny bundle.  One can read their heart just by looking into their tear-stained eyes. ‘Is there beauty for brokenness?’  ‘Will we ever find hope again?’ ‘Is there a refuge, shelter, an escape from the cruel wars?’  ‘Will we ever have bread for our hungry children and elderly?’  Questions without answers!  Many fear tomorrow as they are surrounded by the coldness of an unfriendly war.  Quietly they search their broken hearts, wondering will someone reach out in love, will there be a shoulder to rest their weary head?  All they need is someone to care, to hold them in the darkness of a long and unending night. Someone simply to hug them.

My Adopted son Andrei writes: The mayor of Slobozia Conachi, a village in Romania’s south-eastern Galati region, reported that over seven hundred homes have been flooded.  Quote from Emil Dragomir: ‘This is a catastrophe of epic proportions. Four people were killed in Galati on Saturday, with a fifth death confirmed on Sunday. As a church family, we have commenced a relief project collecting aid for the families affected by the flooding in the Galati area of Romania.  We raised money for the people affected by flooding which enabled us to purchase food, clothing, blankets to place on a truck leaving from the Arad Baptist community. As a church, we wish to continue to raise funds for this area of ministry.  We give thanks to the Lord for his hand of protection in Sofronia.  

Sister Shirley, please pray for the AWANA youth ministry in Șofronea. We opened our winter session on Saturday, September 21^st, 2024. 

AWANA stands for Approved Workmen Are Not Ashamed and comes from the Bible verse II Timothy 2:15: ‘Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth’.  Awana equips local volunteers in churches around the world with biblical discipleship solutions.   I ask you to pray for Pastor Andrei, he has a true heart for the people, pray for encouragement and blessing for the village church in Sofronea.

Gabi shares her heart:  Sister Shirley, we give thanks to the Lord for His grace and mercy.  During the summer months we witnessed the hand of God in the safe delivery of twelve babies.  Through the support of TELL ROMANIA we were able to meet the medical costs incurred in gynaecological tests and echographia’s.   Young mothers received provision of clothes, shoes, pampers, food, dried milk and hygiene products.

I want to extend heartfelt thanks to the people who were touched by Camelia’s story as shared in your last prayer update. Through the support of TELL ROMANIA, Camelia was able to purchase building materials for the roof of her small house. The little ones will not be subjected to a garage space but will have a warm space to call ‘Home’.  What a blessing to receive the backpacks, there are no words to describe our heart to those responsible for the Backpack Project.  In one day over thirty children received backpacks and school items. Praise the Lord! Only through His love showed through you we could help these people and be a blessing for them.  This is not just a backpack; it is a lifeline to an education

 
In conclusion, I would like to share with you how blessed God’s ministry can be. Recently, I met a client who attended our centre approximately twenty-one years ago for personal counselling.   She had just received confirmation that she was pregnant as a result of a rape. Twenty-one years later, we have met and she joyfully confirmed that she kept the pregnancy. We met her daughter who is now a beautiful young lady of twenty years of age.  Praise the Lord for this wonderful news encouraging us as a small team of three to march together in step in the fight of saving lives and pointing them heavenward. 

God bless all of you who are making sacrifices so that this ministry can go on in a world filled with disappointment and problems.  We continue to help our ladies win their battle.

Estera shares the journey of brokenness.  Dear Sister Shirley, during our recent Hospice Camp held September 2nd to 6th, thirty-two children and three family members experienced a life-enriching journey in a serene and picturesque location. The children who joined the camp were facing various challenges, such as serious illnesses, the loss of a family member, or having a parent in the advanced stage of cancer. The camp served as a nurturing environment to demonstrate God’s love and compassion in action as well as healing activities to the children cared for by Emanuel Hospice.

Throughout the week, the children actively participated in morning worship, engaging in Bible study sessions, where they were encouraged to explore and contemplate meaningful Bible verses. The theme of the Bible study for the week revolved around the inspiring story of Esther. In addition to these spiritual activities, the camp offered diverse experiences, including indoor and outdoor games, creative crafts, therapeutic activities, and soothing music therapy.  The camp concluded with a heart-warming campfire gathering and an enchanting talent show evening. We are filled with hope and optimism that the seeds of God’s Word sown in the hearts of these children will flourish and bring about positive transformations in their lives.

Please pray for Ismael. I know Ismael’s family has been in TELL ROMANIA’S care for over twelve years now.  However, the wound where his colostomy bag is placed, is not healing, and the medical team are working hard to teach him to take better care of the surrounding area. He participated in the camp and enjoyed all the activities. When I invited him, he said he couldn’t come because he needed to take care of his goats. After speaking with his family, his parents agreed to let him go, and they would take care of the goats. It was a time when he felt loved and accepted, he benefited daily from the camp’s medical care for his colostomy bag. He was so excited to be able to join with other kids in the camp. He didn’t feel ‘different’.

Please also pray for Andra, a sweet ten-year-old girl who lives with her parents and two siblings. Andra is in a special wheelchair, as she grows, her current wheelchair will soon be too small for her. She is totally dependent on her family for support and spends much of her day in her wheelchair. Unfortunately, her family cannot afford to buy her a new wheelchair that is designed for children. (Please remember Brother Allan Hopper and me as we source an appropriate wheelchair for this precious little one).

Adriana reaching out in love:  Demian is a patient who grew up in a children’s home; he has no income, no relatives or anyone to care for him. He has pharynx cancer, with tracheostomy and a nasogastric tube through which he is fed.  The Hospice team are trying to address the overwhelming needs connected to this particular case.  It is especially difficult because there is no one to take care of him apart from our Hospice team and one other NGO who directed Demian to make initial contact with us.

As I read this case study, I identified a life, broken and disillusioned, no one to love him or cradle him through the many hardships he has encountered throughout his young life. I pray the dawn of a new day will bring hope that strength for each day is only a prayer away. May he sense the everlasting arms as he learns to lean on the only one who can keep him safe from thoughts that only cause hurt and inner pain. He is not friendless or alone, the Saviour is waiting to enter his lonely heart.  Only Demian can open the door. 

Ionela, a patient suffering from colon cancer with multiple metastasis spreading within her stomach and abdomen area. Her overwhelming pain is the main cause for concern.  The pain she suffers at times is impossible to control together with her psycho-emotional issues. lonela has become very angry and bitter, in fact, unreachable as her family are unsupportive.  On occasions she vents her anger in a rage upon our team as she manifests her depth of anger. We pray that we as a team will have the grace and patience required to build a relationship with her in the hope that she will find peace and acceptance through our gracious and compassionate Lord. She often expresses remorse for the way she behaves; we are fully aware that all of this is just an expression of her emotional status and the depth of her pain. May the Lord bless you and Dr. Moore for all the love and effort you put in this mission of helping those who are in pain!  Many without hope!

FOOTNOTE FROM SHIRLEY: There is so much these precious people want to say and yet, they don’t know how. They search but never find; time is running out.  For Demian and lonela time is limited, life is ebbing to a close.  Yes, thousands of miles separate me from my beloved patients and yet I find comfort in the quietness of my heart, knowing the Lord listens to every prayer I whisper.  Their pain may never end but our love can calm the fears within.  I cannot be with them but there is One who can calm every fear and doubt, speak words of comfort in their growing weakness.  Please whisper Demian and lonela.

Monika writes of the sadness filling her heart: Alexandru (42) in the midst of many medical problems is working hard in construction to care for his aging mother and four children.  After having their four children, Alexandru and his wife divorced.  The court awarded the right to take care of the children to the mother. Soon, it became evident that she had succumbed to serious alcohol problems, resulting in the children entering into the care of the state. Many years have passed and finally Alexandru has received the right to take care of his children aided by his mother.  The combined family of six reside in a rented apartment, however, confirmation has been received that Alexandru and his mother now have serious health issues.  The children are Alexandru (16) Diana (14) Adrian (13) and Alexandra (12). We stepped into this family in order to find a solution from the chaos that is present as the grandmother can no longer take care of the family.  The situation being, the grandmother needs the support of the family but the father is very weak, as his work is hard physical work and he too has medical problems.  The oldest son (16) wants to leave the house as he wants his freedom, – Diana (14)  is under pressure to take care of her grandmother,  the running of the  house, and her brothers and sister. Beside this, the three younger children attend a special school for children with special needs, as they have undiagnosed mental delays. We would like to support them in having a diagnosis about their delays, that will help them and also us as a team as to how offer proper counselling and assistance.  May God give us wisdom, to know how to support them, how to bring them close to God. They receive ongoing assistance with school issues, medical treatment, clothing, shoes, school supplies.  May God guide and equip us to bring salvation in their lives! My heart is full of thanks, that the Lord was with us as we served in love.   Our desire as a small team of five is that grandparents, parents, children will come to know the Lord.  

Thank you, Sister Shirley, for working hard for these lives, may God bless all who support you in the work of TELL ROMANIA and bless them in their service.

DR MOORE AND I EXTEND OUR THANKS:

(TO GOD BE THE GLORY FOR THE THINGS HE HAS DONE)

BACKPACK PROJECT:

Ballycrochan Baptist Church: (Mr & Mrs Ian Doherty) twenty boxes of backpacks filled with stationery, lunch box, water bottle etc. Two boxes of assorted stationery items, over two hundred pairs of shoes.

Mrs Ruth Hanna, Mrs Barbara McCook, Mrs Alison McCloy added their backpacks to the consignment, resulting in a total of fifty banana boxes of backpacks sent to Emanuel Hospice, Casa Grace, Iochebed, Sofronea, Roma children.

CHANGE A LIFE PROJECT:

Bethany Baptist Church: (Mrs Marion Morrow) ten boxes of new children’s clothing, knitting, 

Backpacks, dolls, sewing machine.

 Ballycarry Knit and Natter: (Mrs Mavis Patterson) new baby clothing, teddies etc.

Ballee Prebyterian Church: (Mrs Pearl McDowell) children’ clothing, blankets, material etc.

Mrs Alison McCloy: new children’s clothing, backpacks, toys.

Dr. Ann Moore: clothing, Books.

IOCHEBED:

Miss Iris McKerr: New children’s clothing.  Mrs Deirdre Montgomery: Crochet Blankets.

SOFRONEA: ROMA MOUNTAIN CHILDREN:

Mrs Dorothy Davison: Donation of 200 Children’s Sweat Shirts.

THE CHOCOLATE SEASON:

Cadbury chocolate is a delicacy in Romania.  Every year, Emanuel University host a one-day sale of chocolate donated by supporters from around the world. Alison and I decided this year again to fill banana boxes overflowing with tubs of Quality Street, Roses, Celebrations and Hero’s.  Proceeds in aid of ongoing costs incurred by the University.

TENA PADS, WET WIPES, MEDICAL EQUIPMENT 

Distributed as required.

“God’s work done in God’s way never lacks God’s supply.”  (Elisabeth Elliot)

Shirley, September 24^th, 2024

42B Bernice Road, BT36 4QZ.

‘A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another.  By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.’ (John 13: 34-35).

Another Wednesday – recording day in the Moore household for the new online teaching ministry – the 500 Plus Community.  Hamilton commenced a new series this morning entitled ‘The Master’s Men’. (see https://www.youtube.com/@500PlusCommunity launching on Friday 28^th June)  I found myself thinking of them as ordinary men, a son, brother, twin, husband, father… Peter; James; John; Andrew; Philip; Judas Iscariot; Matthew; Thomas; James, the son of Alphaeus; Bartholomew; Thaddaeus and Simon the Canaanite. I wonder what thoughts went through their minds as they waited for the Master’s words of instruction.  The story begins and ends identifying clearly ‘Loving God and loving one another’. The reason we were created was surely to resemble, reflect and reveal the character of Christ. The love we share with the Lord can never be narrowed.  

In my May prayer update, my colleagues were the focus of my attention.  July and August are busy months as our three foundations and Pastor Andrei are engaged in preparation for summer and bereavement camps.  This month, I invite you to join with me in holding the work of Emanuel Hospice, Casa Grace, Iochebed, also Sofronea, close in prayer as they enter lives of marginalised, displaced, unwanted and bereaved children. Children without someone to love them, children without someone to hold them when they stumble and fall, children who have no stability, whose home changes according to circumstances.  Please take a moment of reflection and as you prayerfully read, hold them close.

One week out of a fifty-two-week year is all the pleasure these little ones can call theirs.  Suddenly, they matter in this special place, in the place where a personal memory of ‘belonging’ is born.  The final day of camp is difficult, children sobbing asking ‘Why must I leave, do I really have to go?’ Those who never knew how to pray asking: ‘Please remind me how to pray’. Returning ‘home’ is fearful for many, the love, adventure, fun, interaction has suddenly gone.  Little hearts without joy and security where their tiny voice remains unheard.  They cry out for someone to listen; they need to know they are loved. Will you hold them in your heart by pausing for a moment and whispering the name of a little one that has touched your heart. I find myself pausing, thinking of a new work involving support from Tell Romania as we try to help Sister Berta and Sister Carmen where the Roma children live and search for food at the foot of a garbage mountain …. The story never ends!  

Gabi writes:

God bless you Sister Shirley

How wonderfully God works in our lives; we see Him all around us and in everything we do.  The beauty of creation shouts ‘Hallelujah, praise the Lord!’.  We as a small team of three want to thank you and all who work so hard from afar. Those who have placed themselves in God’s service and who cause many wonders to happen in the lives of these women that have reached a huge crisis in their lives. We thank God for you, because only with His support through you, can we help people who are tested, in needs and lacks that are certainly extraordinary circumstances in our world. They struggle to survive.  I ask you to pray for us as we engage in arranging the various summer camps.  Many children and teenagers will attend and we ask you to pray specifically that as we endeavour to teach and show by example the true meaning and importance of living a holy life before the Lord, it will cause those who listen to want to be different, to be an example in this world.

Dana is a twelve-year-old girl who is ten weeks pregnant. During her twelve years, she has only attended school for three years.  Dana is a very sensitive child with many delays and issues, unable to study at any level. Being an only child, unfortunately her parents did not insist on regular school attendance.  Dana became involved with a twenty-one-year-old male and is now pregnant; this man refuses to take responsibility for his actions. Dana’s parents have decided to lodge an official complaint.  As Christian parents, they will raise the baby. This family is in much need of prayer, Dana’s father is ill after suffering two heart attacks with a stent intervention. May God help Dana to carry the baby full term as she is very much underweight.

Elisabeta is only eighteen and already is the mother of two children aged two and nine months. She is now sixteen weeks pregnant with her third child.   Elisabeta is concerned about managing her pregnancy and taking on full responsibility for rearing her three children.  Elisabeta is finding caring for two babies and her third pregnancy somewhat overwhelming and is very weak.   May God place His Hand upon Elisabeta and strengthen her body to carry this pregnancy full term.  Difficult days for an eighteen-year-old.

Estera and Adriana share:

My Dear sister Shirley, greetings to you and Dr. Moore

Our annual Hospice camp, scheduled this year, is dedicated to offering support and fun experiences to children facing serious illnesses. The attendees include our patients diagnosed with cancer or other life-threatening illnesses, the siblings of our child patients, and children who have a parent in our care in a terminal condition. As we continue to work on organizing the camp, we are prayerfully and carefully considering the theme that will bring joy and inspiration to these brave young participants.

Floare is a patient with kidney cancer; both her legs are paralyzed, which is related to spinal issues.  This dear lady lives each day experiencing great pain in her lower limbs.  Despite all the measures taken by our medical team, Floare has developed large pressure sores on the lower part of her body, adding to her pain and discomfort.  Recently, she was baptized at home, she needs our prayers in order to stay on the path the Lord has paved for her. 

Sophia (4) has just been diagnosed with Rett syndrome; a condition that makes her entirely dependent on her mother. Due to multiple health issues, Sophia has been admitted to hospital on many occasions.  Memories of her first four years are not of fun, play time, only illness.  Despite her exhaustion, Sofia’s mother cares for her with unwavering love. It would mean the world to them to know that people are keeping them in their prayers.

Monika writes:

Precious friends,

We are in prayerful preparation for our summer camps of 2024 where we will host thirty-five children on the first week.  The second week is designed specifically for teenagers where we plan to host at least twenty-five teenagers.   We ask you to hold these sixty children in your heart and that God’s placement will be according to His plan and purpose in their lives.   During camp days, we want to show God’s love and tell of His plan of salvation. Those in attendance represent the families we support with food. hygiene, clothing, shoes, school supplies, medical tests.  We offer guidance and counselling during difficult days.  All backgrounds are represented: the loss of a parent, alcohol abuse, learning difficulties, all resulting in a lack of food, living conditions and all other negative issues related to the depth of poverty, both physically and spiritually.  Please, keep us in your prayers – may all of us as leaders be able to remain strong in Him, to identify the problems connected to each child.   May the daily bread we offer fill their hunger and quench their thirst.

The Patcas family are a family who have been known to us for many years.  A family who struggles to survive.  During the husband’s illness the entire family were forced to move to the village home of their elderly grandfather where three adults and seven minors shared the limited accommodation.  There were many dark days, yet, God was watching over this precious family, His providence proved sufficient. Now, the mother and three of her daughters are attending our sewing class, in order to be able to raise money for their daily bread.  The grandfather, who was in his late nineties loved his grandchildren; sadly his love is no more as he died very suddenly.  It is evident something is missing in their hearts as all the girls are very sad, they miss his love, his wisdom and his hugs.   Unfortunately, their family income will decrease substantially as they depended on the grandfathers old age pension to assist with the demands of the everydayness of life.   May Our Father see their sorrow and provide the resources required.

Andrei writes:

Sister Shirley, I am thankful for this year and the ministry accomplished throughout the first six months of 2024, especially among children. This summer we will continue the ministry with several camps. Presently, eight children from our Ferma church outreach are in a Christian camp in Varfurile. We, as a fellowship pray that God will search their hearts and that they be open to receiving the gospel.  During the first week of August, we will hold a Vacation Bible School in Sofronea.  The Bible School will be held for three hours each day, where they will be taught scripture verses, songs and learn the art of fun and play together.  Our desire is to reach children and their parents with the Gospel.

My personal prayer request: I pray that all the children will receive the gospel through these meetings. This is the greatest desire of my heart right now.

Here we have a lot of prayer points as we remember all our summer outreach camps during July and August.  Tidal waves sweep over our case studies, I question myself and have recognised that it is certainly easier for me to write than to think of living in their world.  My colleagues value your prayers but even more as they try to impact young lives during the summer months at camp.  Camp is a place filled with love, joy, peace; pray young hearts filled with attitude, resentment and discouragement will not just ‘Go On’ regardless but will have a desire to ‘Go On’ a new journey of self-discovery in the Lord.

My prayer update will resume in September and in the will of the Lord as we reach forward to those things which are ahead, we hold in our hearts and cherish the call to serve.  I am reminded of Hebrews 10: 24 ‘Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works.’

To think you formed the heavens

Poured out the rushing seas

You carved the mighty mountains,

In all their majesty

Such glory in Your kingdom

O Lord, how can it be

That You could take the time

To be every breath to me? (Janet Pascal)

Shirley, 26, June 2024  (42b Bernice Road, Craigarogan, BT36 4QZ)

Concluding a study book on women of the Bible, I was captured by the challenge of their motivation and dedication to serve.  They were women the Lord shaped for a purpose; women whose priority was love.  I thought of the countless lives for whom ordinary moments are fast failing and yet I am secure, sheltered in a love that will never end.  As I closed the book, I quietly asked the Lord to make love my priority, to help me lift the clouds, to help me calm a troubled spirit, to have patience when perhaps it all becomes overwhelming.

This month, you will find my update somewhat different. My focus – my colleagues in Romania where each day is greeted with the testing of mountain peaks of tragedy, pain and sadness. They face days where trials are so deep rooted, where mountains refuse to move.  Yet, they continue to bring comfort to outstretched hands.

This month you will hear from Marinela (Director of Emanuel Hospice) Estera, (Social Worker) and Adriana (Psychologist).  Moving on to Gabi (Iochebed) followed by Pastor Andrei (Sofronea) and finally Monika (Director of Casa Grace).  Pray as they have surrendered their lives to serve, they will be aware that as they rest in the Lord, they will know godly wisdom throughout everything they do.

MARINELA. Greetings and much love from me and the Emanuel Hospice team, dear Shirley.

We are well, through God’s grace both regarding family and the work of Emanuel Hospice.  We continue our mission to provide palliative care, with now three home care teams built around one doctor (one is a specialist pediatric team, two are adult teams). The ongoing work of our building project continues. We are presently in the planning stages for the interior of the new Hospice Centre. We regard you as one of our team and thank the Lord for the ongoing interest and input of Tell Romania.

ESTERA: My role is offering support to the patient and family, advising awareness of local services in order to obtain unspecified social rights. I also provide material or financial support for patients and families who have insufficient income to cover minimum needs. (Food, Hygiene, Medical Expenses).  I offer support to children and adolescents diagnosed with life-threatening and life-limiting conditions, as well as for bereaved children and their families, guiding children how to process and accept their hospital experiences, offering support during difficult medical procedures.  I provide emotional and spiritual support to help patients and families deal with questions and concerns about the meaning of life, suffering or death. My role also involves organizing recreational camps for children diagnosed with life-threatening and life-limiting conditions, as well as bereavement camps for children who have lost a parent or a sibling.

I am writing here concerning the need for one of our patients. Bogdi is a twenty-one-year-old boy diagnosed with muscular dystrophy. His mum asked if we could help with a special wet chair for bathing use.  The one Bogdi has been using is very deteriorated. They are facing many challenges to adjust to his ‘comfort’.  As he is becoming older, things are increasingly difficult.  (Shirley – Finance was transferred to Estera immediately in order to purchase a new chair.)  

ADRIANA: My role as a psychologist is to offer psycho-emotional support for the patient and their loved ones, when needed.  Often, when children are involved, therapy is offered according to the suitability of their age range, i.e., play therapy, art therapy, or just focusing on developing a close and honest relationship, especially with teenagers. Bereavement support for family members losing a loved one in our care is ongoing.  The pain of loss is real.

A case in which prayer is needed is a young patient namely Diana, (I wrote of her last month). She has kidney cancer and metastasis on her spine. I started therapy with her oldest daughter, who is a teenager. Besides coping with her mother’s illness, she is in a critical stage at school, facing admission to high school. She has many exams to pass, which add to the constant pressure she is facing. Her mother is feeling helpless, unable to be supportive. Her husband is overwhelmed with the number of responsibilities crowding his mind.  The whole team needs wisdom to approach this case in a sensible and loving way, as the entire family is affected.

GABI: As a team of three ladies, we have been serving for twenty years in Suceava. Every day we face different challenges, cases that touch our hearts where we want to get involved more so that every woman, family or child receives help from God.

In recent years the people we encounter are from the gypsy community (Romani community).  Many girls from as young as thirteen plus, come for pregnancy tests and pregnancy counselling. Once their pregnancy is confirmed, we schedule them for a medical consultation and ultrasound test. If there are difficult cases where further tests are a requirement, we finance accordingly.  We provide information surrounding pregnancy, hygiene and pregnancy alimentation. We are trying to advise them to attend school to obtain an education rather than seek an abortion. With your help, we distribute backpacks and shoes. When the women go to hospital to give birth, we give them a birth package which contains- diapers, newborn clothes, hygiene products, blankets for the baby, socks and hats and we help them in the first years of the baby’s life. On may occasions we purchase medicines for the children who are sick, food, dried milk for the babies and wood to bring warmth in the winter

I wish to bring to your attention the case of a client who gave birth to her second baby in January. Her name is Dorina and she is facing difficult times. She lived in a garage owned by a relative. Unfortunately, last month she had to leave the garage and was forced to go with her two children to her parents’ house. It is an exceptionally small house and it is totally overcrowded.  She is barely managing financially; her husband went abroad to work and save money to build a home of their own.  Dorina wants to have at least one room so she can move there with her children. She asked for our help in prayer because at this moment, she doesn’t see any solution to have a room of her own. We encouraged her and prayed for her. I know we are counting on God’s help and He can make the impossible possible. Let us support Dorina so she can see the great miracles that God in His infinite kindness will make for her!

ANDREI: The month of May in Romania began with the celebration of Christ’s death and the resurrection, reminding us about the importance of sharing the Gospel with those around us. It has been a personal blessing speaking to several individuals and to invite them to come to Christ. We continue to work with children and teenagers in Sofronea and with children at Ferma Church. We are blessed to see children responding with joy, showing interest in the Gospel.  However, our heart is sad that no one answers the call of the Gospel. Please pray for us. As a young pastor I pray for wisdom to know the right words that will create thoughts of eternal security.  I pray for courage to preach the message the Lord places on my heart and the energy to continue the ministry here where God has called us to serve.

Please pray for Paul and Alina, a couple who are coming to our church. Paul is unsaved and lately God has shaken their lives in a very powerful manner. We pray that God will speak to Paul’s heart that through these challenges he may come to know the One whose Kingdom is unshakable.

MONIKA:  After graduating, I worked as a loan officer at a Christian nonprofit organisation for two years.   My role involved offering advice to ladies wishing to start their own business, witnessing of the One who could change every circumstance and make everything new.  A former professor of Emanuel University commenced working for Euro Evangelism (now known as TEN) approached me regarding serving at CASA Grace.  I prayed, asking the Lord for godly wisdom.  I look back on that day twenty years past in October 2023.   

My prayer was, and is now, to bring His light into the lives of those who are going through hard and sad days, being close to them, supporting them at all levels. In order to see many lives changed, encouraged and lifted up by the Lord.  I am involved in the daily activities, meeting the beneficiaries, encouraging and guiding our team of caring professionals.  I maintain regular contact with the friends of CASA Grace seeking to be close to each one who is in need of support, by praying for them, visiting them, giving them the bread of life, guiding them to the best medical treatment they require, sourcing a suitable school, the right workplace. I am thankful for the journey with CASA Grace and I can witness that He loves and is close to the hungry, the abandoned and does not forget precious children and adults, and he wants to bring salvation, restoration and joy in each precious baby, child, teenager, young adult, parents and grandparents.  I’m also very thankful for the team I can call family, CASA Grace, who work on a daily basis, prayer warriors who are ready to keep their hands up in each battle we are in, as the spiritual battle is ongoing. It is also encouraging to witness that His grace is sufficient for all of us and has the power to transform and restore each broken life. I’m blessed to be part of this work, and I want to serve with all of my strength as long as He allows me. 

We would like to give thanks for your support for Roxana, a six-year-old girl and Ioana, five years old. The food and all the essential products mean Love for them. They need to continuously be lifted in our prayers; Roxana is a very clever and sensible girl, but she is very sad as she sees the changes in their situation and circumstances.  They lived abroad with their parents for a few years, working hard to buy a small house in their native village; we still don’t know what happened… both girls were abandoned by their mother.  She doesn’t keep in touch with them.  They are totally forgotten.  A difficult transition surrounding their father.  After a few months of medical treatment, it is obvious that his mind and behaviour is dangerous for the girls, and that this man should be permanently in residential care.   Roxana and Ioana’s grandfather, is taking care of him, as he continuously wants to end his life and sadly, he is in a world of his own, unable to communicate with the people around him. The grandmother is working full time, in order to have an income for the whole family. They are also in the process of adopting Roxana and Ioana.  But what future is there for these two young girls with elderly grandparents?  We bow our hearts in thanks that the grandparents have come to know the Lord.

Undetected circumstances, unknown days, fires of sorrow, we safely leave in Higher Hands. The Psalmist penned in Psalm 95:4 ‘In one hand He holds deep caves and caverns, in the other hand grasps the high mountains ….. His hand sculpted Earth’. (The Message).

Love is the greatest gift we can give.  May we all be reminded of our calling.

Shirley, May 28, 2024

42B Bernice Road, Craigarogan. Co. Antrim. BT36 4QZ.

 I never cease to give thanks to the Lord for His goodness in engineering circumstances just when needed.  Last weekend, sixteen banana boxes were sent to Romania to meet urgent needs, with a further consignment waiting to leave this weekend.  HE IS ABLE.

‘There is no pit so deep, that God’s love is not deeper still.’ (Corrie Ten Boom).

  Days passed, I simply couldn’t settle to put pen to paper, my heart was heavy, I felt troubled as I thought of those who are trapped in what appears to be an endless season of poverty, the weakness disease brings and the cruel sting of parting.  Waves of darkness sweep over them, engulfing them in the trauma of an emotional journey. The pit of darkness is deep, there is no place to run, nowhere to hide.  These are the devastating realities of those the Lord sends our way.

A young mother torn between love and sacrifice.  Two sick children where the cost of medication leaves a meagre amount for food; the family would know the pangs of hunger without the aid of our Feeding Programme.   A Roma village based seventy kilometres from Oradea where poverty is causing them to slip deeper into a pit of darkness.  My dear friend Berta and her friend Carmen spend Saturday baking fresh bread for the families, setting off early the following Sunday to minister in this village of darkness.  The gospel is shared as they eat together. Later, over one hundred children attend the Sunday School.  ‘A pair of shoes.’  Two young mothers travel over ninety kilometres to attend our sewing class; one young lady has eleven children, the other lady, eight.  Nineteen children in total!  During coffee break they shared the need of shoes for all of their children but a choice would have to be made owing to lack of finances. Nineteen pairs of searching eyes wondering ‘is it me?’  We were able to escort them to our shoe department – nineteen pairs of shoes were lovingly chosen – indeed a gift from God’s hand. Our actions can touch those who search and long for a miracle.  Our harvest of shoes is still yielding a harvest of hope.

Pastor Andrei continues to extinguish tapers of doubt.  A village situated close to Sofronea is home to many Roma people.  A disused building, formerly the communist party farm, offers a facility of flats to many families.   Andrei writes: Please pray for the Church at the Farm. Last Sunday we celebrated thirty years of Baptist witness. Approximately eighty people combining of children, teenagers and adults came to our special open-air anniversary service.  Please pray for those who heard the Gospel and for the poverty-stricken families living on the farm that in their darkness the Lord will shine the truth of His love.

Quietness is real and at times the silence is deafening.  Many sit alone, afraid of quietness.  In the quiet moments we can hear our heart beat, we hear our voice of conscience and many sit in fear of the unknown.  Our call to serve those emotionally drained can come in differing forms where we need to remove the shades of disappointment and the dark shadows of fear.  All work we do for the Lord is meaningful in its time and purpose.  

Estera shares:  BOGDI continues to need your prayers. He is a young man of twenty-two years who has been diagnosed with muscular dystrophy. His mother has requested prayer for him as their situation is extremely difficult.  Bogdi is now in a period of his life where he desires to be independent and lead a normal life, but he is totally dependent upon his mother for almost everything he needs, including feeding. Additionally, his mother has health issues which adds further complications.  She has lovingly and willingly sacrificed everything in order to care for her beloved son.

ELENA (10) has been diagnosed with spinal amyotrophy. She is confined to a wheelchair and only has partial use of her hands.  Lately she has undergone multiple surgeries to her spine as well as her hips and is now recovering. Elena is a very intelligent little girl and when able, attends school. She has a strong desire to be able to do things by herself, leaving her mum anxious, as she needs to protect Elena from any form of injury.

MADALINA (8) has down syndrome and suffers from diabetes. She is one of five siblings; her family struggle with the reality of overwhelming poverty. Her parents love and care for her, facing many challenges on a daily basis.  Fortunately, our feeding program provides them with food on a monthly basis, for which they are extremely grateful.

Suffering can be a lonely journey for both young and old. Our terminal patients know the pain of ultimate loneliness living in a life overcast by gloom where the passing clouds are bereft of rain in a dry and barren land.  

Adriana shares: DIANA is a young patient suffering from kidney cancer with metastasis on her spine.  Three weeks ago, the metastasis on her spine caused her to be paralyzed from her waist down. The only option of hope is in the form of expensive surgery where there are no guarantees of success.  Diana has two young daughters, who are her main reason for living and she is willing to face the darkness of this storm.  She is also aware that there might not be a positive ending on this earth for her but holds on to her hope in God and in His promise that she has a home prepared in Heaven.

LAURA. Last month, I shared this particular case with you.  Laura, who has gallbladder issues, is now at home. In the short period of one month, she has had to undergo a series of six surgeries.  The darkness of suffering has caused sleepless nights, as the surgeons are unable to locate the root causing the infection within her organs. The surgery procedure highlighted that her colon was highly infected.  The only resolution was to insert a colostomy.  Laura is now facing new ways for her body to function.  A traumatic and unexpected experience.

ADINA has been diagnosed with cervix cancer. She recently underwent surgery for a total hysterectomy, unfortunately the prognosis is negative. It is expected that her health will decline rapidly within the next consecutive weeks.  Adina is aware the she may die soon, and is at peace.  Her husband however, is heartbroken and unable to accept this. He is greatly affected and is receiving medication in order to calm the inner fear of the reality ahead.  He needs our prayers, as do the entire family during the heavy mist of suffering.  

The dark clouds continue to gather for our beloved patients. The prescription of darkness digs deeper into their pit of hopelessness.  

‘THANK YOU’ to Ballee Presbyterian Church Afternoon Fellowship who embraced our ‘CHANGE A LIFE’ project.  Six banana boxes were lovingly and thoughtfully prepared with love and amazing attention to detail.  Little faces will light up with a smile.  Bless you for caring for our terminally ill children.

Brother Allan Hopper collected TWO ADULT HOISTS donated in memory of a beloved wife.  The hoists have now arrived in Romania are have been delivered to two terminally ill patients in Oradea.  A ‘Change of Life’ for those families also.

Motherhood is special forming a bond of precious memories. Many of our young mothers have choices to make, struggles to face, the fear of illness, each day brings another obstacle.  Iochebed offer love, counselling and practical help but more importantly, we pray for the Holy Spirit to impact these young mothers causing them to make a new beginning.  

Gabi’s update:  REBECA (29) is mother to a two-year-old boy, she is presently twenty-one weeks into her second pregnancy. Last September, Rebeca embraced the grief of a miscarriage and is now overwhelmed by fear and stress.  Her consultant has informed her that the growth of the baby is delayed and has recommended immediate tests for thrombophilia.  The Lord can touch this little one that development will be normal.

AYAN is the four-week baby boy of Carmen who is only eighteen. The little one developed a cold which infected his lungs. The baby was admitted into hospital, to be later discharged with a recommended treatment of antibiotics.  Carmen had no money to purchase the prescribed medicines and nebulizer, she came to us in distress asking for our help.  We pray the Lord will speak to Carmen and change her young life as she cares for baby Ayan.

MIA has two young children and came to us asking for our help in prayer. Mia is feeling ill and extremely weak after the birth of her baby, her body aches with pain and she is experiencing spells of dizziness.   Mia has tried (unsuccessfully) to make an appointment with her GP, but nothing was available.  We encouraged her to attend the local hospital.  After various tests etc stomach issues have been identified, she has now been referred to a specialist where new investigations, scans etc will take place.  Please pray for Mia, that God will heal her, so she can raise her children!

ANI has five young children and has asked us to pray for her; she is pregnant with her sixth child.  Last year, she suffered a miscarriage and is filled with the fear of losing this baby.   May God help her defeat this fear and may she give birth to a healthy baby!

Fear chases away sleep, offers no comfort, minds trying to find answers in their dilemma.  We have all experienced lonely periods where we wrestled with our doubts, fears, sorrows.  With a quiet heart, may we listen for God’s whispers of comfort, peace and assurance.  

Monika’s update:  LEONARDO is struggling with school studies and absenting himself from school on a regular basis. When attending school he is often without lunch. His teachers were so concerned they contacted Casa Grace. He is a sad, withdrawn young boy unable to interact with his school friends. Leonard was abandoned by his mother and has been reared by elderly grandparents who are rearing their great grandson, Marius (9) who was also abandoned in the hospital by his mother.  The father of Marius will not accept responsibility for him, as he was born with mental disability. He refuses to acknowledge any contact. Sister Terezia (grandmother) loves the boys unconditionally and makes no difference between them.  She is trying to be a Godly example within the confines of their humble Roma home.   She is praying the Lord will save her entire family.  Sadly, the Roma village know only the depth of deep poverty and are steeped in darkness.   Her strength is failing as she is required to care for all of her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and her beloved husband who is suffering from pulmonary cancer.  He refuses to come under supervision and continues to consume alcohol and nicotine.  They live in a social apartment with minimal and unacceptable conditions.  Each visit displays such a depth of darkness on all levels.  Sister Shirley, may the fresh bread, food and hygiene parcels, the shoes, backpacks, prayer support also bring the light of salvation to these precious lives.  They are lost, they need the Lord.  Sister Terezia carries a heavy cross and yet continues to smile. To see her leave the Casa Grace office with food, shoes, backpacks …… we give thanks to the Lord.

ALIZ AND HER FAMILY are a Christian family, the father is Nigerian, and they have three boys below the age of eight.  They live in a rented apartment and all three children are in school and kindergarten.  The father works in construction. Sadness entered their lives when Aliz started to have some medical issues, the boys also were very sick resulting in Aliz stopping work.  They are now totally dependent on the father’s salary, sadly his earnings do not meet all the expenses related to the family and medical expenses. There are no relatives who can assist them through these valley experiences and they are very thankful for your presence in their lives. May your love bring strength assuring them others care.

Each month, our prayer update speaks of unwanted and unexpected circumstances where our families, patients and beloved children know the heartache of personal suffering.  We cannot offer a fast formula, there is only One who can ease the pain, mend brokenness and speak the words, ‘Peace Be Still’.    As we embrace each new day, this moment in time matters, we can make it count for the Lord.

In His Rich Grace, Shirley, April 28, 2024. (42B Bernice Road. BT36 4QZ)

AN UPDATE FROM HAMILTON:  Tell Romania is actively assisting in other aspects of need throughout Romania. Ongoing support for the online provision in Emanuel Christian University of their Data base (£2,400 per year since 2020); updating Emanuel University Library (this year £1,500); publication of the Journal, Semanatorul, The Sower, (£350 per edition). Translations of two of my books on the Pastoral Epistles and Galatians continue to be printed in to Romanian, Hungarian, Ukrainian and Russian. Regarding recent publications launched in the UK, 500 copies of ‘Hallelujah, What a Saviour’ and ‘To My Little Children’ (a commentary on 1 John) were donated to Romanian Pastors. Revival Movement received a donation of 1,000 books for circulation throughout the world.  Two further books are currently with UK printers. 

Shirley and I value your prayers; pray we will be used of the Lord in our attempts to show God’s love and to lay a firm foundation in Bible ministry across the world – serving in deed and in truth.

‘Blessed shall be thy basket and thy store’ (Deut. 28: 5).

Dear Sister Shirley, I have a question about one of our patients. He is a little boy of two years of age who has just completed his chemotherapy, the side effects have left him unable to eat. I would really like to help this family.  Do you think I can use some of the money from the Tell Romania Feeding Programme to purchase a blender to help this little one to eat?  
Yours, 
Estera.

A little darling deprived of fun and playtime, so ill he is unable to eat.  As I thought of this precious little boy where the shades of life are falling, a dew of quietness crowded my mind.  I thought of the countless families running on empty where all sense of hope has been trampled into hard ground.  Lives for whom seasons do not change, all they know is the coldness of ‘winter’.  Here we have a poor yet humble young family; their breadbasket is always empty. Those who have little for breakfast, no lunch, a scanty bite for dinner, living (in the words of a familiar saying) from hand to mouth, living today, hoping for tomorrow’s portion, even a bread basket portion.  Many for whom health has gone, wealth is far removed, character is left wanting. John Wesley said: ‘Do all the good you can, By all the means you can, In all the ways you can, In all the places you can, At all the times you can, To all the people you can’.

FABI (22) our patient is suffering from epidermolysis bollosa, an extremely rare genetic skin condition. Recently, she received an oncological diagnosis; treatment commenced last week. The tumour is causing Fabi a lot of discomfort and extreme pain as it evolves in her hand. Please pray for her Mum who is always beside her to care for her.  I have known Fabi since she was ten years of age, I remember driving her home after an Emanuel Hospice Children’s Day Outing where on that particular June day it was 41 degs. (rather hot).  Fabi is an amazing young lady.

DELI passed away in February; now the family are going through deep sorrow. They are overwhelmed by grief; the younger brother finds comfort in doing things Delia used to do and is always asking when she is coming back. Deli’s younger sister cannot understand where Deli has gone.  Both parents express their sadness through crying; they hope they will see her one day when we all meet in heaven.

NEEMIA (4) is currently undergoing chemotherapy treatment. Neemia has five siblings, and his parents must care for each of them. Unfortunately, Neemia has relapsed, and he requires a second round of chemotherapy treatment. Young parents whose hearts are torn apart as they watch their little one suffer.

Sister Shirley, thank you again for your patience and the love you have for us as a team and our patients! I hope you and Dr. Moore are well.  Miss You.

Adrianna.

GIZELA is a patient with cervix cancer which recently metastasised in her lymph nodes in the abdomen. Additionally, she and her family came face to face with another tragedy – part of the rented accommodation in which she lives has been destroyed by fire.  We give thanks to the Lord no one was injured. They are a poor family; there is an urgent need for finance to repair the house in order to make in habitable.

MARIA is a patient suffering from breast cancer. Approximately ten years ago, she went through surgery and received a series of chemotherapy treatments; now she has relapsed with metastasis spreading throughout her abdomen.  Conjointly, she has bilateral lymphoedema (massive swelling of both inferior limbs), which causes extreme pain and difficulty in moving. In order to ease her pain and discomfort. Her husband has to change her position almost every hour.  He is very supportive, loving and caring.

ZOLTAN is a patient diagnosed with pulmonary cancer and brain metastasis. Zoltan’s wife lovingly and without complaint takes care of her beloved husband.  They had a son who died at the age of fifteen; he was suffering from leukaemia.  This precious lady hides her pain behind a smile.  Every day her mind relives those days of pain and suffering as she watched life slowly fade away for her little boy.  The reality of her fear is that she recognises her beloved husband is becoming weaker day by day.  There are days he is unable to speak, other days he does not know where he is and does not recognise his beloved wife.  

LAURA is a young patient who has been in our care for two years. She has liver cancer with multiple metastasis. The initial round of chemotherapy was successful in controlling her illness.  Recently she started to feel unwell. Larua was rushed to hospital for emergency gallbladder surgery as the doctors believed this was the cause of the sickness.  Following the postsurgical procedure Laura developed a very high fever which was unresponsive to medication. She had to undergo further surgery, and remains in hospital, waiting for the fourth surgery. The surgeons are unable to identify why her body is not responding but more importantly, the root cause for the infection in her organs. We wait to receive an update.

Your support and prayers have been a blessing to me along these years of ministry, and by God’s grace, I hope He will use us here in the coming years. May God bless your generosity and your kind heart. 

Andrei.

‘I have served in Sofronea Baptist Church for seven years.  My main focus was always the youth and the children who will be the people of tomorrow.  Our goal is to reach a young generation who are in desperate need for the Gospel. By God’s grace we have a great ministry with children and youth in Sofronea and at Ferma, where in total. (as you already know Sister Shirley) we have fifty children and teenagers who hear the Gospel every week. My ministry expands to secular schools in Arad County where I teach Baptist theology. There, I interact with hundreds of children every week many of whom are not my students’.

‘Last week, we received the boxes containing football kits, sweatshirts, and backpacks. All these items will be distributed in the coming months to children in my village and in the schools (one of the schools is 80% gypsy) to kids who are in need. I am blessed to be able to reach these children and the clothing items are a useful tool to help those with whom I am constantly meeting and guiding’.

As I write the sun is appearing filling the room with light, a feeling each time I meet the One who brings light in dark moments. The visits, bread, food, shoes, backpacks, clothes, medication, treatments, discussions with school teachers, offer light, hope and joy into the very troubled lives of the children and families of Casa Grace.  Sister Shirley, my heart thanks you and your team for your love and care for these precious people. May each loaf of bread, each pair of shoes, each meal, show God’s love and saving Grace! 

Monika.

SEBI (9) his condition remains unchanged. Conflicts continue between his father and his stepmother who has tried to be a loving mum to young Sebi who was abandoned as a baby.   Sebi fears he is going to lose the security and love he has found and is now filled with anxiety, resulting in aggressive behaviour as that of his father.   Sebi has had to leave his rural school and has been placed in a school catering for children with special needs. Please pray for God’s guidance as we talk to him that he will lose his aggression and find peace in his young heart. 

ALBERT (9) another young boy caught in the conflict of aggressive behaviour and a family feud.  The situation became untenable resulting in the family moving yet again.  Albert is struggling to adapt to another new school and with a different method of learning.  The standards of this new school demand higher grades etc. Pray that he will ‘try’ to do better and be encouraged by each minute we spend with him! An urgent prayer request:  Albert’s mum will have to undergo surgery to remove a large tumour; may God grant her good results and quick recovery. This results in a lot of fear and uncertainty for young Albert to process. 

REKA (10) remains close in our heart.  A precious little girl who still mourns the loss of her beloved grandfather.  Reka and her grandmother have been forced to move to a small rented apartment; many changes in such a short space of time.  Reka now has to be within walking distance of a school as the aging grandmother must now find work.   Reka was very attached to her grandfather. She is filled with fear if grandma died suddenly too, saying, ‘who would love me, who would want me?’  This has resulted in her grades dropping during the past month.  Pray for peace in the troubled lives of these children of sorrow.

ZOLTAN (11) lives with his mum and two older brothers.  His father died of cancer and he is very sad. His school results are poor. He has become introverted and is struggling to form new friendships, more importantly, to achieve the requirements of his school curriculum. May the support they receive show His Light and Love for them.

Praise the Lord for all that He has done for us so far. We are thankful that He in His infinite kindness is fulfilling His plan in the fight for life. We are so thankful for you, God through you helped so many children, women and their families. We praise God for the two babies born this month. May God be praised and honoured!

Together in ministry, 

Gabi, Mihaela and Loredana

ANDRADA is a young mother (23) she has two children (7yrs and 18 months) She is now thirty-two weeks into her pregnancy, it has been confirmed the birth will be by caesarean section.  Last week, she developed serious symptoms causing concern and was admitted to hospital. Andrada remains in hospital undergoing treatment. May God be with her to enable the birth of a healthy baby!

NICOLAS is a baby boy of 8 months; he is the third child of Laura. Nicolas has a low immune system and has been admitted to hospital suffering from bronchitis. Laura is overwhelmed, as her husband has been diagnosed with leukaemia and attends the main hospital in Cluj for treatment. Laura is afraid the small baby will develop asthma as has her older son.  Laura stays in the hospital with Nicolas who has bronchitis and chicken pox(varicella). She was advised to go to Lasi for further investigations as the consultants suspect baby Nicolas may be Down Syndrome. May God place His loving hands upon this little darling.

DORINA is a mother of two young children, she is facing hardships because she has to move from where she lives; there is nowhere she can go.   She came to our centre in a distressed state requesting our help in prayer.  We serve a God who makes all things beautiful in His time.   The team of Iochebed were able to secure a rental property.  Tell Romania will fund the rental until such times as a permanent solution can be found.   The children don’t want a basket filled with Easter eggs, they simply want a place to call home protected by the loving arms of Mummy.

RAMONA gave birth to her baby two weeks ago.  She has many issues regarding caring and feeding for her little one.  Fear is real, pray for this young girl. 

When we think of ‘Baskets of Blessing’ our mind visualises baskets of sweet-smelling delicate flowers adding colour; luscious fruits depicting a harvest of plenty; excited children carrying Easter baskets. Yet many baskets are filled with tangled threads, lives broken, knotted by the lapse of years of hardship and disappointment.  The landscape of our lives does not remain the same. It is so important during these days of change to dwell in the secret place.  ‘Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly …’  Col 3: 16.  God’s word brings peace, comfort and the courage to face these changing landscapes knowing we are journeying to a heavenly landscape, our eternal home.  

‘I have looked back to times of trial with a kind of longing, not to have them return, but to feel the strength of God as I have felt it then, to feel the power of faith, as I have felt it then, to hang upon God’s powerful arm as I hung upon it then, and to see God at work as I saw him then’. (C.H. Spurgeon).

Shirley, March 26, 2024. 

42B Bernice Road, Newtownabbey BT36 4QZ

‘CHANGE A LIFE’ PROJECT 

Alison and I have been brought to a place where we have proved God’s unwavering faithfulness. For days my mind was absorbed in thinking of the children’s oncology wards close to my heart.  In a telephone conversation with Estera, I was to know the reason why.  All children’s oncology wards have now been closed and the Emanuel Hospice team are caring for all the sick children in their homes. God’s whispers are always timely. Alison oversaw the first consignment which will reach Oradea this weekend. Baskets of blessing filled with pyjamas, slippers, socks, leggings, T-shirts, anoraks, quilts, teddies. We are overwhelmed by the response which will ease the private fears of young parents as they offer love and care from a heart that is breaking inside.  The Lord never forgets to send the moonlit sky with glowing stars. Thank you for bringing a glow of hope to an overshadowed sky.  

THE BELIEVING MAN ACCEPTS A PROMISE OF GOD AS A FACT AS SOLID AS A MOUNTAIN
AND VASTLY MORE ENDURING (A.W. TOZER)

Emanuel Hospice; Casa Grace; Iochebed.  Differing foundations ministering to specific needs.  Yet, all with one thing in common; supporting each individual holding onto a frayed, fragile faith with strands of worn-out thread until in their quietness, fear and disappointment they cry: ‘listen to my heart’.  

The summer has gone where once the buds of freshly planted rose bushes blossomed into beauty, only to be replaced by withered petals falling to the ground.  As I study each individual, study their personality, trying to enter their situation, my heart sinks, my head aches and yes, I struggle trying to process.  Yet I’m grateful for the opportunity of giving a little something that will ease their pain and suffering. 

Entering another year of service, I long to love more than ever before, I long to care for those struggling to survive, to tell them of the One who will take their hand through the hardest of days.  For those facing a measure of suffering, their days are hard; for most of us, our struggles can be resolved, yet for those who live in my heart, separated by thousands of miles in Romania, their struggles are filled with the fear of the unknown, unanswered questions where the complexities keep on rising.  The horizon, the sun is shaded and life is meaningless.  May the Lord grant to each one of us a gentle spirit of wisdom and a depth of love for those without a place to anchor.

My colleagues in Emanuel Hospice enter into unexpected tragedy on a daily basis. During 2023 one hundred and sixty-nine patients ranging from babies to the elderly, lost their battle with cancer. Their unified love and compassion come from their undivided hearts; in moments of profound sorrow, the name of ‘Jesus’ is in every word they speak, as they graciously tell of a love that will soothe sorrow and sadness.  

Delia was a precious sixteen-year-old girl and as all teenagers do, dreaming of her future.  I outlined her prognosis last May in my prayer update.  I quote:   Delia (16) was diagnosed with cancer one year ago. She lives with her parents and her siblings (a sister and three brothers). Delia is confined to a wheelchair and is significantly affected by the fact that she cannot assist her mother in household duties. Her mother and father are devasted seeing her failing health but maintain their hope in God.  Delia’s condition continued to deteriorate rapidly, especially during the past number of weeks. She quietly passed away a few days ago.  Delia, who had just turned seventeen is survived by four younger siblings (three brothers and a sister). Before becoming sick, she loved to assist her mother with household duties and caring for her younger siblings. During this past year as her illness progressed, that was no longer possible as she was confined to bed on a permanent basis. Delia was diagnosed with a brain tumour; she was in our care for the past eleven months of her short life. Her family are in deep sorrow, they are walking through a barren desert of emptiness.  Delia’s passing has left an emptiness in six broken hearts, they will never be greeted by her beautiful smile, never share hopes, dreams together.  May the Lord whisper ‘peace’ in their sorrow.

Cristian.  Another patient I wrote to you about last month.  I quote: Cristian’s (14) condition is continuing to worsen. He is now at home being cared for by his mother and grandmother. His younger sister is grieving inwardly as she watches her brother grow weaker day by day. The whole family share in Cristian’s suffering as they quietly try to find reasons. There was no holiday celebration in this home, Cristian is unable to move, see, speak, eat. Heads are bowed in despair; try to feel their pain and remember them. This precious fourteen-year-old boy passed away two weeks ago. His family are devasted, especially his younger sister (10).  Cristian was very attached to her; her mother and grandmother are deeply concerned as the little girl is so overwhelmed by her sense of loss, she is developing complications causing added worry to the family.  Presently, investigations are in place to identify these symptoms. Her elderly grandmother cannot find the strength to go on. Her heart is broken and she is overwhelmed by grief.   Cristian was dearly loved. He was a treasured son, brother and grandson.  Grief is real, grief is personal, but grief is painful.  May the Lord take their hand through their emptiness. 

Peter (17) has been diagnosed with a rare syndrome and is confined to a wheelchair. He is cared for by loving parents. Recently, his father displayed symptoms confirming all was not well with him health wise.  After investigations, it is suspected he may be suffering from a cancer related illness.   His mother’s health too is very fragile, in fact, another cause for concern. Peter watches in silence; it is very difficult for him as he is totally dependent on his parents for every aspect of day-to-day living.  

All my patients possess a tender heart and a gracious spirit.  Thank you for holding them in prayer as well as providing food and hygiene products which is a real help to them.  (Estera).

Dora is a young patient in her thirties, who has recently been diagnosed with rectal cancer, resulting in a compulsory colostomy. Sadly, there is added pressure on Dora as her body is rejecting it.  Dora is cared for by her mother who struggles alone to provide the bare essentials and medical requirements.  This dear family is one of our social cases as their living conditions and finances are well below the level of acceptance. In fact, the provision of the ‘daily bread’ is secondary, since the ongoing medical expenses bring such an unwelcome pressure.  There is no support in place for these forgotten people.

Marius, another young patient suffering from lymphoma; the tumours have spread throughout his body affecting many organs and bodily functions. He is lovingly cared for by his wife who now has the total responsibility of providing care for her beloved husband. She has to find employment in order to raise finance for medication and utility bills and also care for their young son. They hunger for so much more, pray for them.

Melania is a patient diagnosed with liver cancer. Her body is becoming weaker and weaker owing to the ongoing sessions of chemotherapy.  Melania struggles emotionally and indeed spiritually; she suffers from severe bouts of depression.  Owing to the nature of her nervous disability, there is a lack of understanding and support from her family. In silence Melania suffers mentally; the quietness of a hospital ward is lonely. Owing to the high level of chemotherapy we are unable to visit on a regular basis. But there is One who is waiting in the silence of the shadows, who patiently waits to be invited to enter the darkness of night.  Pray Melania will invite the Saviour into her fear, her loneliness.  He is waiting.

Please pray for the husband and son of Cristina, another young patient who died from colon cancer a few days ago. I plan to commence therapy with her son; the cancer advanced very rapidly, Cristina’s husband and son had no time to prepare for her unexpected death. (Adriana).

 A different ministry is offered within Casa Grace.  Families becoming broken and torn apart by unfinished chapters in their lives.  Deep wounds, misunderstood, suffering shame, they are unable to move forward.  All case studies are individually processed and receive personal guidance over our two-year programme where counselling, food, hygiene and clothing are supplied.  All part of the inner healing process of accepting that although there is no permeance in their lives, God is unchanging and immovable.

SIX PRECIOUS JEWELS:  Rares (12) is the oldest of six children (4 boys/2 girls). He was born with differing mental delays; his learning capacity is limited and he struggles with school work.  While he longs to be able to read naturally like the other boys, for him, it is difficult. Words could not describe their family home; it is uninhabitable. But this is ‘home’ to nine people whose strivings never cease to end. A step-father, mother, grandmother and six children who barely survive. Unfortunately, their stepfather has a chronic alcohol problem. There is no extra-curriculum training offered, living in a small remote village, attending a village school. Mostly problems arise because they come from an extremely poor background, where the family are totally disorganised. Rares goes unnoticed and overlooked in important issues, leading to a lack of maturity. He is a very hard-working boy, always taking care of his two younger brothers, responsible to search for firewood and build a fire every day, Romania is cold in the freezing winter months.  Through it all, Rares still has a smile on his face.  He is so excited to see the arrival of our monthly food and hygiene as he receives chocolate from the food parcel. The chocolate is held tightly in his arms with a very happy face.  He searches for the washing powder, as he too is responsible for the weekly family wash.  May the daily bread supplied by our faithful supporters not only fill his empty tummy, but may his young heart feel your love. May this young boy know someone, somewhere cares enough to show it.  Your love in action goes beyond and more.   Stay close to our children.  

In this family Casian (2) and Marcus (3) are darling little boys, also with mental delays. Rares finds time from all of his household chores to care for these two precious young jewels, as mummy is unable to cope with the children on her own.  She is a very delicate and fragile young woman with many untreated health issues.  Apart from living in the depth and darkness of poverty, many of our families have no identity papers; therefore medication, treatment is not an option.   What lies in store for young Rares?   But as we provide for them from our shoe and backpack project, clothing, food, our prayer is that our Heavenly Father may grant us the wisdom to provide according to His will, God’s timing is always perfect.  I must confess I do stress, I do question, my heart aches as I think of their insecurity and their living conditions.  One fact I know for sure, God is faithful, therefore we can safely place all our trust in Him and in Him alone.  The Lord is the only One to whom I can turn for an overwhelming sense of security. Here I rest.

Larisa (9) is a real sweet little girl, she lives with grandma, together with Abel (5) and Petru (7).  No time for play or for normal day to day activities of a nine-year-old girl.  Larisa’s basket is overflowing with the harsh reality of deep poverty.  From a very young age, Larisa was always thankful for any form of support, yet always willing to share the good things which were minimal in her young life.  A nine-year-old young girl with one burning desire – to learn.   Your prayers and support have been the cornerstone in her crumbling life.  ‘A backpack for me?’ Her fully equipped backpack with the small sandwich box ensure she can take dry bread to school, otherwise she would go hungry and be unable to concentrate on learning. She has a warm place where she can do her homework and yes, because of you, she now has shoes and boots and clothes to go to school. Larisa loves her new fully equipped backpack. Remember, these children do not often know the joy of a new gift, toy or clothes. Thank you for loving my children. You now know why I find it impossible to sleep when writing my monthly update.  My heart is overwhelmed and my mind is troubled.  Thank you for walking with me.

Monika and Neli continue their journey through muddy streets without roads to the next village where another family waits patiently for their monthly food provision.  The weather is dark, dismal, wet, cold as is the atmosphere inside the village home. The food, hygiene, backpacks, shoes, toys are gently touched by two small girls. Sofia (5) and Ana (2).  Their eyes stare at the chocolate bars in amazement. They never see chocolate or sweets, as there is barely enough money for food.  The girls playfully wear a backpack, play with the dolls and doll’s house we brought.  This was a belated Christmas for two beautiful little girls as there was no Christmas in this humble home. The father is a young man of thirty-nine, who suffers from a severe heart condition.  His wife abandoned the family home, leaving him to provide and raise three children alone.  His new wife is a hard-working gipsy lady, the two little girls are born from the second marriage. However, his wife has health issues which creates a heavy burden upon this family.  Seven meals required around an empty table.  The older children are so thankful for the food you provide, our Feeding Programme goes beyond and more.

Here the weather is very windy, cold, wet making harder the life of those who are struggling. As I’m writing these words, my heart is full of sadness as I see and feel the darkness of poverty. It is so painful to see children smiling as we visit them, while their face shows the burden of life. In talking with them, God calms my heart and encourages me, remembering that His Light can change these precious lives, even when as a human I don’t see the future very bright. As a second thought, He is telling us to continue to love and serve them and He is overlooking and will bring out the best. Thank you for being with us on this journey. (Monika).

A.W. Tozer penned: ‘The man who has God for his treasure has all things in one’.  Our team of three dedicated ladies in Iochebed reach out in love to those imprisoned, held captive by a life of hurt and trauma.  They are tired of striving for what seems impossible, all they have known is rejection and poverty.  Our team teach the importance of a balanced life of consistency where they can come to know the One who can cause their striving to cease.  

Coming to Iochebed, Iuliana (25) is ten weeks into her pregnancy.  During 2023, she miscarried, resulting in serious complications. She has embraced this pregnancy with fear of a second miscarriage.  Pray the Lord will speak words of peace to her heart, a heart that is filled with fear and uncertainty.  Pray that Iuliana will be released from thoughts that trouble her longing heart. 

Estera is very young to be a mother.  Baby Dorothea entered this world four weeks ago. She was born with disabilities of hydrocephalus and spina bifida.  Despite the doctor’s prognostics, Doroteea is fighting to survive.  She has undergone an intervention for spina bifida and recently a tube was installed to drain surplus liquid from her brain. Following surgery, Doroteea contracted bronchitis; her breathing was cause for concern and she was moved to a life support machine. Estera is heartbroken, unable to sleep as she faces the unknown with her precious baby daughter.  May God touch this precious little one with healing grace.  Estera will require an inner strength to care for this fragile baby.  Pray for her.  

Mihaela is expecting her second child at the end of January.  She has no one to turn to and needs our support to enable her to give birth without complications. The past months have been difficult for her; with a heaviness of heart, she came asking us to pray for her and to stay close beside her.  The silence of loneliness is a stark reality. 

Sarina (17) has no other option that to raise her baby daughter alone. A young teenage girl with the responsibility of a four-month-old baby daughter.  The poverty is beyond words, as she shared with us we learned she has been sleeping on the floor with her baby daughter in her arms.  Four walls, a space without furniture.   Once aware of the situation, we purchased a day-bed immediately, where she and the baby can sleep. Those who support the work of Iochebed, blessed Sarina and her baby through your love and faithful donations to our various foundations. 

During December you blessed us with so many gifts for children and their families they forgot their troubles and enjoyed the gifts received. We succeeded in blessing seventy families with food and over one hundred and fifty-five children received gifts – this was made possible through God’s help that was shown through your kind hearts. We praise the Lord for all the people that last year were a part of our story.  Please pray for the babies born during January 2024.  It is important to develop a relationship with the mothers and to remain involved in the lives of all the babies born through the work of Iochebed. (Gabi, Mihaela, Loredana)

Thank you for taking time to prayerfully read my January update.  I have shared my heart, introduced you to those who continually wrestle through endless days where nothing seems to change.  They live in a cloud surrounded by a hostile mist of uncertainty. The searching eyes of children without a future; the face of an elderly grandparent who silently wonders ‘am I enough for what is needed?’. Yes, I am troubled then I remember the words of a gospel song sung by The Imperials and the Gaither Group:

When you’re up against a struggle that shatters all your dreams
And your hopes have been cruelly crushed by Satan’s manifested schemes
And you feel the urge within you to submit to earthly fears
Don’t let the faith you’re standing in seem to disappear.

 Praise the Lord, He can work through those who praise Him
Praise the Lord, for our God inhabits praise
Praise the Lord, for the chains that seems to bind you
Serve only to remind you that they drop powerless behind you
When you praise Him

Pray for Emanuel Hospice; Casa Grace and Iochebed as they minister to show God’s amazing grace. I close by quoting the words of C.H. Spurgeon.

‘Praise is the rehearsal of our eternal song.  By grace we learn to sing.

And in glory we continue to sing’.

Shirley, January 26, 2024

42b Bernice Road, Co. Antrim. BT36 4QZ

‘Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world’. (1 John 4:4).

Hamilton’s recent publication was based on a study of the proofs of life in The First Epistle of John.  In proofreading the contents, I found it informative but more so, challenging.  As we enter another year, perhaps a year filled with distractions, circumstances beyond our control that are certainly not the ones we had planned, let us hide ourselves in the One who is greater than all that troubles our mind, remembering that ‘He who is in you is greater…’  What a promise with which to go forward into the unknown of 2024.

News channels filled with disturbing updates where the reality of ‘loss’ is beyond words.  Lives thrown into turmoil, homes, families gone in an instant.   Reflecting on 2023, I think of the pain and suffering of so many brought on suddenly and unexpectantly – war, floods, earthquakes, tragic loss of children leaving lives forever broken.  Speaking personally as I embrace a new year, I need to really see the circumstances, situations of my case studies as the Lord sees them.  I want everything to be made beautiful in my time, the Lord is the shield round about me, my glory and the lifter of my head and in His time, which is always perfect, the Lord will make all things beautiful, He is the One who knows the end from the beginning and in the silence of another morning methinks it makes things less complicated. This morning I read from Isaiah 46: 8-10: eleven words are engraved on my heart: ‘My counsel shall stand, and I will accomplish all my purpose’.  

During the past days, I found myself thinking of the many ‘hopeless sorrows’ filling my mind.  Surely there can be no higher calling than to give the gift of hope to parents bereft of children, to children longing to hold the hand of a beloved father, mother, brother, sister.  When we give compassion, we give love, we bring hope.  Jesus is the greatest gift we can give to a broken world.

My colleagues in Emanuel Hospice have encountered many cases overwhelmed by the failure and sadness of broken relationships, abuse, and loss.  Many of our patients are alone; they live their last days hoping someone will love them even with all their failures.

Andor is a patient suffering from colon cancer. He and his wife have lived a lifetime in the shadows of darkness and personal tragedy.  Fourteen years ago, they lost their beloved son and daughter as a result of a car accident; both were only toddlers, robbed of a lifetime of memories, two precious jewels gone in an instant.   A childless couple who has devoted the last fourteen years to one another.  Andor’s health is deteriorating; his days are short as the cancer is evolving throughout his body.  Another widow who will spend her last days alone with her thoughts of what might have been.  In the quietness of aloneness, only thoughts of those she loved but sadly lost.  Will you bring compassion, will you offer love?

Elisabeta has pulmonary cancer.  She lives alone in extremely poor conditions. She never had the joy of cradling a baby of her own and is a widowed lady with a background of sadness. Elisabeta, abused by her husband throughout their entire marriage, she never knew the true meaning of love; she never heard a soft word of endearment, only harsh and hurtful words followed by abuse.   Now, she is fully dependant on a lady who, for payment will shop for groceries, cook and clean.  She is still longing for love, reaching out for someone to genuinely touch her life.  Elisabeta has no pleasant memories, her last days are filled with a longing to matter to someone.  I repeat, will you bring compassion, will you offer love?

Florin is an elderly patient suffering from prostate cancer who is cared for by his aging wife.  They lost their daughter as the result of a brain tumour; now his wife has to embrace the painful task of caring for her beloved husband who is terminally ill. Florin accepts his illness with courage and serenity, but has expressed his concerns as to how his wife will manage without him.  All these elderly patients are reaching out for love.  Will you love them?

At the end of November, I wrote: Kristof (7) has relapsed for the third time. His family are devastated. The family have two younger children who have had to sacrifice the love and care of their mother as most of Kristof’s seven years have been spent in hospital. These children have been unable to make memories with their older brother. Kristof’s memories are not filled with the laughter of normal playtime; only the fear of treatment and medication. Please think of these special children this Christmas. This precious little boy will spend another Christmas Day in hospital.  Kristof did not see Christmas Day, quietly and peacefully this precious little boy of seven passed away.   His family are overwhelmed by grief.  His father rushed to the hospital to cradle his son in his arms as a frail little boy breathed his last breath.  Kristof passed away before ‘Daddy’ could spend final moments with his beloved son.  It was a quiet Christmas in the home of this precious family.  Let your love reach out and touch this precious grieving family.

Cristian’s (14) condition is continuing to worsen.  He is now at home being cared for by his mother and grandmother.   His younger sister is grieving inwardly as she watches her brother grow weaker day by day.  The whole family share in Cristian’s suffering as they quietly try to find reasons.  There was no holiday celebration in this home, Cristian is unable to move, see, speak, eat.  Heads are bowed in despair; try to feel their pain and remember them.

Fabia (22) has a rare skin disease; it is suspected she is also suffering from cancer.  Fabia has seen many consultants in order to find a solution to her severe problems with one of her hands. A young lady with her life in front of her. Pray for Fabia that she will open her heart and hear words of comfort, words of hope, words of love.

The strains of Christmas Carols have filled our hearts and homes.  As I think of my families on our Feeding Programme, Goodwill to men can be extended in a variety of ways.  Monthly food and hygiene packages are a must, indeed a lifeline for a hungry family but there are heartfelt hugs, hospitality, treats for my children, peace for troubled minds.  As we minister month by month to families in the depth of poverty, we tell them of Jesus, the Bread of Life, who also can be Light in their darkness.  Thank you for your support.

Reka, her world is shattered.  Many of you will recall the story of how precious Reka’s grandfather was to her.  This beautiful little girl was abandoned by her mother and loved and cherished throughout her ten years by her grandparents.  Her grandfather was her world.  Four weeks ago, Reka’s grandfather (65) was diagnosed with cancer; his passing came unexpectantly.   Reka suffers from severe asthmatic problems and is home schooled during the severe winter months. A footnote of encouragement:  Every morning prior to eating breakfast, the family gathered around the laminated plaque we enclose with each food parcel, it is a wall plaque telling of the One who is the Bread of life.  Other gifts are only fading shadows compared with the Gift of Life. I pray Reka’s grandfather came to know the One who is the giver of life.

Monika and her three daughters live in a small isolated village located two hours from Oradea. Christmas 2023 was one three little girls will never forget.  Their beloved ‘Daddy’ diagnosed with cancer four weeks ago, passed away suddenly.  We pray as we have supported and will continue to support this family, the seed we plant will germinate and grow in their hearts.   Unexpected funeral expenses created a heavy burden for this young mother. We will continue to offer food and hygiene on a monthly basis.  Through our shoe project, warm shoes, boots and backpacks have enabled the girls to attend school. There is always ‘one’ we can share the gift of God’s love.  Let us continue to tell others.

Petru (50) and his family are supported each month with food and hygiene. A heart rendering case study of a family of thirteen children who have known only poverty, yet a family who possessed such love one for the other.   Petru and his oldest son served in the local church, sadly his young son lost his life as a result of a car accident.  Now, tragedy has hit again as recently Petru lost his wife to cancer leaving him with the full responsibility of raising eight children alone (10 – 18 years of age), Rebeca, Elisei, Isaia, Salomea, Doritea, Naomi, Petru, Filip, as the remaining four children have now families of their own.  Eight siblings faced a Christmas without ‘Mum’; eight children are fearful of their future. Life has been cruel and unkind to them; they feel totally forsaken and indeed alone.  The creator of the universe, the One who formed the world with His own hands, spoke the word in such a way we could understand.  May assurance and love fill the hearts of these eight frightened and lonely children.  There was no Christmas in the hearts of these children only moments and reflections of sadness.

Our Dora has returned home to ‘Daddy’ after being in a care home for one year.  It has been a difficult year of separation both for John and Dora.  John encountered several health issues and underwent surgery for a hip replacement.  During this time, work was implemented to accommodate the ongoing needs, as Dora becomes older and less active.  It was always our plan to have Dora spend Christmas at home.   We continue to support John as he lovingly cares for his precious daughter.  John has embraced the loss of his young wife and daughter, raising Dora since a baby.  Monika visited this week as Dora was patiently waiting on her gifts from Auntie Barbara. As I watched the video link and heard Dora cry: ‘Sister Shirley, I need to see you, perhaps I could fly to you?’ She is still treasured and I do love her childlike faith.   They need your continuous prayer support as John is aging, making each day harder and she has a few more health issues that makes walking more difficult for him.

Gabi, Mahalia and Loredana have had busy days during December.  The snows, chilling winds, freezing conditions are hazardous for those living in makeshift homes.  The door of Iochebed has opened throughout these cold and uninviting weeks of a Romania winter.  During November a further two babies were born and sixty mothers assisted with medicine, finance for firewood, purchasing furnaces for a wooden hut without heat, food, hygiene.  Each family and in some cases the parents, grandparents, received winter shoes and boots, with the backpacks continuing to be a blessing.  One family said: ‘This is the best present’.  Another case where we assisted in obtaining wood for the winter, is a young mother who chose to give birth to her baby. The mother is sick and the father of the baby is aggressive and refused to care for her and the baby. We cannot pass by.

Estera gave birth to her first child on November 26th, a baby girl of 3.1 kilos. Little Doroteea was sent to intensive care as she was born with hydrocephalus and spina bifida. Estera informed us that the birth of Doroteea was a miracle as she was advised during her echography that the baby had no brain, also her spinal cord was much shorter.  The medical staff advised Estera that the baby would not survive, she refused to accept but rather decided to pray for a normal birth.  Following the birth of her daughter, the little one required oxygen.  A few days later the first of planned surgeries was performed to address the baby’s spina bifida and our miracle baby was able to breathe unaided. Pray for baby Doroteea who has to undergo further planned surgeries.  Remember this new mum, as Estera has had no time to recover personally as she is required to attend to her baby in the hospital.  

Samira (16) is the mother of a one year and one month baby girl. Recently she suffered a miscarriage which has proved to be a most painful experience for the young sixteen-year-old girl.  Simira became a mother at the young age of fifteen. I pray as Samira reflects on her young life, already filled with pain, that she will embrace the indescribable gift of life in salvation and forgiveness.  Our level of care covers material needs but more importantly it must cover spiritual needs.  These young Roma girls come to Iochebed longing to be heard, to be understood, searching for love.  The love of God can reach beyond all longing.

Marta is a mother of two children- a one year baby girl and a 5 months baby boy. She asked us to support her in prayer, especially her baby girl who has health issues. We have financed her medical tests and bought the required medicines for her baby. When one reaches out, we have an obligation to take their hand. 

Sarina is a mother of a 3 months old baby girl. She is a minor, but chose to fight for her baby’s life. After the first snow, the water came through the roof and her roof of her makeshift home fell apart. She was distraught with nowhere to go, no one to help.  She had heard of the House of Grace that reached out in love to those in need and came, sharing her story with our team.   We purchased materials for the roof and implemented the work in order that her baby is warm and safe.   When we think of our own children and how we care for them, think of Sarina who, a child herself, has the responsibility of a precious baby daughter.  May she feel our love reaching out to her, touching her. Changing her?

The villagers of Sofronea have been blessed this Christmas as they received a personal shoebox from Monkstown Baptist Church.  Children and elderly were remembered.  Let me share a few lines from my adopted son Andrei who pastors the church:

Greetings and love from your brothers and sisters in Christ from Sofronea, Romania.

 We are so grateful for your generosity. This year, as on previous years, we feel blessed and loved by your gracious gifts. All the shoeboxes were distributed to families in need and to the children we are ministering in the village, as well as children from our church. By the grace of God, we continue to work with children outside our church who need to hear the Gospel and these presents were exactly what we needed to show our love and appreciation to these children. We are eager to continue the good work and we would appreciate your prayers for this ministry.

May God bless you and keep you and reward your generosity. I know that every sacrifice done for God’s Kingdom is known by Him. As you saw our needs, I know that God sees yours and He can fulfil those needs in an unimaginable way.

Another arm in the ministry and outreach of Tell Romania is our Vocational Training Room.  A place of learning the art of sewing but also the opportunity of learning to remake yourself, to forget the past and to move forward with a quiet heart of trust.  My friend and colleague Dana sent me this report:

Another academic year behind, another course completed, another group of students entering our tailoring course next semester.  

All the girls and village ladies were very interested in this particular course and this was seen in the garments designed and made.  At the end of each course, in addition to the graduation examination for the diploma, we hold a competition, namely the Golden Needle Award. The best overall student receives the gift of a new domestic sewing machine.  This year, first prize went to Florina Tiriteu (23) who lives in the district of Hidiselul de Dobresti, Bihor.  Florina has ten brothers and sisters, 6 boys and 4 girls. She is single and working in a factory, in Marghita, 55 kms from Oradea, a small city, where she is only sewing straight lines.  Her heart yearned to know more about the art of sewing, having heard of our success in training hundreds of students over the years, she made contact, willing to commute.  Her talent soon became evident as we watched her progress faithfully week by week. Florina is very shy, but very motivated; she was overwhelmed to receive the first prize of a sewing machine of her very own. 

As I thought of those perhaps without academic skills who long, who want to be better, who crave for personal training in a skill of their choice, the Lord spoke to my heart of the need to replace our embroidery machine, a huge expense and yet as I waited in the silence of my heart, I saw God move in an amazing way of provision.  To date our waiting list is past taking.  A transformation has taken place in many lives. We view the importance of our coffee break where the Word of God is read and the story of the cross revealed.  God’s Word changes lives. 

As we enter 2024 the words of Psalm 9:10 are precious to me. ‘Those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, O Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you’

Hold these thoughts close to your heart:

He lights the path before us (Psalm 119: 105)

He guides, He leads (Proverbs 37: 5-6)

He will never abandon us (Hebrews 13: 5)

He will answer us in our distress (Psalm 20: 1)

A HUMBLE GIFT OF LOVE IS THE BEST GIFT WE COULD GIVE TO THE VULNERABLE AND HELPLESS.  THOSE WHO ARE ALONE AND FEEL FORGOTTEN, THOSE WHOSE HEARTS ARE BROKEN.  WILL YOU REMEMBER THEM?

Shirley, December 28^th, 2023                  42B Bernice Road, Newtownabbey. BT36 4QZ.

December?  Where has this year gone? As I try to process the fear and unrest many have encountered throughout this year and are continuing to face daily, I am reminded of the words of Deut. 31: 8 (NIV) ‘The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.  Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged’.  We rest in knowing we serve a God who is merciful and gracious, whose love is steadfast and whose mercies are new every morning. C.H. Spurgeon: ‘Let your gratitude compel you in everything you do for Jesus’. A new year lies before us with new opportunities. It can be the starting point of a personal journey of greater reliance upon the Giver of Life.  We need to prepare room in our hearts; we need to commence a personal experience of getting to know God is with us in every season of life.

As I commence writing this report, I identify those who are anxious, worried, heartbroken, without food, without anyone to care – the list is endless.  I pray they will come to know the love, comfort and assurance of a loving Lord who silently waits to be invited into their situation.

A few weeks ago I wrote: Lanko (12) is sinking fast, as his condition continues to deteriorate. He has tetra paresis. Each breath is now a constant struggle even with the support of an oxygen cylinder. Lanko is now fed through a feeding tube and has another tube inserted to drain the infection from his lungs. Every day is increasingly difficult for his grandmother; she herself is ill, many seasons have come and gone in her life. This is now a season of sorrow. Lanko is treasured by his grandmother; she cares for him from a heart overflowing with love. This aged lady gives and gives and gives again without complaint. There are no rainbows in her sky, no bright tomorrows. Soon the winter season will arrive; she will be left alone in the coldness of sorrow.

It is with a broken heart and deep sadness I share the news of the passing of this beloved grandson.  A few days ago, Lanko (12) passed away after years of suffering. His suffering has ended but his grandmother who loved him and cared for him since a baby is left alone with only her memories.  Lanko’s mother rejected him, not accepting the responsibility of caring for a sick baby.  The loving heart of a grandmother took him in her arms and has lovingly cared for him for twelve years.  Her days are meaningless, her heart empty, as her beloved grandson has gone.  She awakens each morning to dark and lonely days; she is in a season of deep sorrow.

Kristof (7) has relapsed for the third time. His family are devastated. The family have two younger children who have had to sacrifice the love and care of their mother as most of Kristof’s seven years have been spent in hospital.  These children have been unable to make memories with their older brother. Kristof’s memories are not filled with the laughter of normal playtime; only the fear of treatment and medication. Please think of these special children this Christmas.  This precious little boy will spend another Christmas Day in hospital. 

Daria (10) diagnosed with spinal amyotrophy has undergone a recent surgery to straighten her spine. It was a most difficult surgery followed by extreme bone pain.   Another precious little one who should be outside playing with her friends. Yet, sickness is her only companion.  Daria’s mother asks from a broken heart to whisper Daria’s name in your prayers. 

Kevin is stable and able to attend school on a regular basis.  Following his last procedure, his consultant recommended Kevin to lose weight in order to relieve the pressure on his legs and feet.  Kevin celebrated his fourteenth birthday this week and is growing into a fine young man. He has now lost weight and is feeling the benefit when walking.  Prior to his birthday, his voice suddenly changed, Robi would be proud of his young son. 

Livia is a patient recently diagnosed with breast cancer. The tumour exulcerated, causing her extreme pain. Livia has added complications owing to a metastasis which is spreading throughout her body.  Fluid retention is causing swelling, presently, one leg is causing a high level of concern. Following a recent consultation her consultant informed her of the possibility of amputation. My heart is sinking as I write. The pain, the burden, the decisions this precious lady is hiding in the corner of her heart.  She is totally alone without any family connections.  A friend has opened her home to her just now to ensure she receives food and nourishment.  In the dark nights of loneliness, the reality of a decision is crowding her troubled mind.  Please pray for this dear lady.

Marioara is a patient with colon cancer.  The cancer is causing metastasis in other vital organs, especially her lung area.  Marioara is fully dependent on a portable oxygen device. She is one of many of our patients who struggle to breathe. Her illness and the prospect of a future is creating anxiety, she suffers from panic attacks when she has an attach of dyspnoea, a sudden, severe attack of shortness of breath.  Remember Marioara. 

Elena is another one of our patients diagnosed with breast cancer.  She is still undergoing a series of chemotherapy treatments.  Elena is a widow; all of her children live abroad.  Her days are lonely. In fact, Elena has expressed the silence of loneliness is much more difficult to bear than her illness. I pray for many who long for the doorbell or the telephone to ring, just to hear another voice. Real people with a real longing just to matter to someone.  Elena’s sister and brother-in-law, neighbours try to call. These are the cold facts of reality; please remember those you know who are alone.

Elisabeth was one of the first patients I met on my first visit to Romania weeks after my marriage to Hamilton in 2012. She is lovingly cared for by her beloved husband John.  Elizabeth has undergone several surgeries for cancer. The Lord touched Elizabeth and she has been in remission.  Recently it was confirmed her cancer had returned and immediate surgery was arranged.  She has recovered well after the surgery and is undergoing a series of mild chemotherapy, which her body appears to be coping with exceptionally well. John and Elizabeth are members of Emanuel Baptist Church. On each of my home visits, John would sing a psalm, while Elizabeth would read the scriptures.  A special couple who love the Lord, in and out of season.

Suceava has been greeted with the first of the Romanian snows.  I remember as a child singing ‘Snowy flakes are falling softly clothing all the world in white’.  This was not the case on this particular morning. Many families had no firewood; there are barefooted children without adequate clothing and shoes.  Families may appear resilient, even indestructible, yet the panic was evident as families came pleading for help. Your donations made a real difference, as we were able with God’s help to show His love to many families who had no food or wood for the winter, or whose children were without clothes or shoes. Six new babies were born this month, our team in Iochebed have been assisting all six families with pampers, clothes and medication.  

Paraschiva was born close to term – at thirty-seven weeks weighing only 1.9 kilos.  This precious little one was born with a severe infection. She suffered an internal haemorrhage and was unable to breathe without intervention for the first few days.  The doctors did not expect the baby to survive.  The young parents talked to the Lord about baby Paraschiva. The Lord heard their prayers and the baby is beginning to gain weight. There are underlying concerns regarding her heart and eyesight. She will be sent for further investigations to a specialist hospital in the country. May God touch this baby girl and watch over her development.

 Delia is a mother of a five-month baby girl who recently discovered she is twelve weeks pregnant. She is feeling weak and unable to consume food owing to the extremity of her morning sickness. Pray for this young mother that the Lord will sustain her throughout her remaining weeks or pregnancy.  

Ani is a mother of a little one aged two; she too is pregnant again. Ani is mentally unprepared for another baby and is feeling most distressed at the prospect of giving birth to another little one. Ani needs our prayers to accept this little one is a gift from the Lord who will be a blessing to her.

Sorina is the mother of two children.  She came to our centre asking for our help. She was diagnosed with a disease that causes her extreme pain. Our team spent time with her offering wise counsel and direction which has helped her.  Sorina praised the Lord for His care, asking for grace during in these difficult times.

Doina is a single mom with a three-year-old girl.  Doina is deaf and mute.  They live in freezing conditions without heat. She asked if she could be considered for a furnace to help her and her little one keep warm during the winter months.  She was not turned away. A furnace was purchased and installed in order that this little family may know warmth and comfort in the place they call ‘home’.  May God bless them and touch their hearts with His love!

Our families have no foundation to build a secure future. For many, all hope of such has faded and they feel forsaken and alone. We try in love to show them and tell them that when our hope is secure, we can give thanks even in the darkness of every season.  They open their eyes each morning thinking ‘If only I knew where to go, if only, if only …’  Unanswered questions, wrestling with the consequences of wrongful choices.  Every season is the same.

Rebeca (12) is a beautiful young lady with a burning desire and an eagerness to learn the art of tailoring. However, she lives in Vascau which is ninety kilometres from Oradea. Our Vocational Training Room is meeting the needs of many families, while our waiting list exceeds fifty. Casa Grace was made aware of this situation. My team are beyond words, as arrangements were made for Rebeca and her cousin to attend a five-day intense training course during their school holidays and Dana (Supervisor) offered hospitality to the girls in her home for the five-day training session.  Earlier this month, I felt compelled in my heart to upgrade our embroidery machine. This turned into an amazing journey of faith, ending in God’s provision.  My lesson – listen to the stillness of His voice.  How blessed to have met this need and to think Rebeca can dressmake for her twelve siblings.

Albert (10) displays a fear, a sadness. His parents divorced after his father created ongoing problems due to his alcohol addiction. Naomi (mother) is trying to keep her family together.  Albert’s sister, Renata is nineteen. They are forced to live in rented accommodation. Naomi is very encouraged by the vital food and hygiene support, the added blessing of shoes, backpacks, blankets, clothes! We live to serve and pray that through our service they will come to know the One whose love will never fail them.

Two small girls of two and four live with one step sister (10) and two brothers (12) and (14). They live in a remote village approximately one hour from Oradea. They are going through a tunnel of fear just now.  They need accommodation for seven people and had no other option but to purchase a small village house resulting in the added expense of a monthly mortgage. Calin (father) and all five children have medical problems.  Calin raised his three older children alone, as their mother abandoned her family when Ana (10) was only four weeks old. The father remarried and has two smaller children to this second marriage.   The mother of the three older children has suddenly appeared after a ten-year absence, requesting custody of all three children. The children do not know her, they have no memories of her and do not want to leave the place they call home, the place where they have found security.  Paula, as a stepmother, even though she is young, loves all five children and takes excellent care of her humble home and precious little ones. Paula makes no difference in any of the children.

UPDATE ON ALEX TOMA:

The Toma family receive Christian love and attention from our dedicated teams. Medical care is provided by Emanuel Hospice who visit twice weekly and food and hygiene come from Casa Grace.  Ongoing medical expenses bring concern and added worry to the family.   Alex has been in a coma for six years. He is very thin owing to muscle wastage. His sister, who was his main carer is now unable to visit on a regular basis since now she is eagerly awaiting the birth of her first child.  This is creating added pressure and anxiety on brother and sister Toma who struggle with illness and depression since the two accidents involving Alex and his sister. The family are hurting, as weeks become months, months become years and still no change. They need our prayers.  Their daughter who had the amputation following the car accident is now eighteen and is waiting to be scheduled in Bucharest for a new prothesis.  She is filled with fear.  Dia who has just celebrated her twelfth birthday has thyroid problems causing extreme weight gain – she too fears the future.  A precious family who throughout all that life has thrown their way remain steadfast in their faith and love for the Lord.  Please remember the Toma Family.

UPDATE ON PASTOR ANDREI, SOFRONEA:

My adopted son continues to serve with a heart of compassion.  I am thankful to the Lord for the years in Emanuel University where I watched him mature.  Andrei has embraced the challenge of service in a village church and for one so young, there are many challenges.  During the month of October, a youth ministry has commenced with ten young people in attendance during the opening service.  Ligia, who was one of my girls in the Beauty of Holiness group is a Proverbs 31 wife. She has arranged a special meeting for the women of the church, inviting village ladies to come and share together. She organised a lady to come alongside the ladies outlining how to overcome their fears.  Last Sunday, two young girls were baptised.  Andrei and Ligia have a vision and God is moving by His spirit.

TELL ROMANIA UPDATE:

November proved to be a busy month.  It became apparent that the need for shoes and filled backpacks was causing concern to many village and Roma families.  Unless a child has a personal filled backpack, they cannot attend school.  For many of these children, school is a life-line from the pressure of homelife with all its disappointments and problems. During the Harvest season, various churches held a ‘Shoe Harvest’ in their Church Foyer and to date we have transported over one thousand pairs of shoes.  During the past three weeks, over one hundred banana boxes filled with backpacks, shoeboxes, medical essentials have been transported by Tarsin Transportation. We continue therefore, to enable the Foundations of Casa Grace and Iochebed to show God’s love to children and families; also, Emanuel Hospice, who minister in love as they seek to share the Good News. An army of ladies were involved in the process and we wish to acknowledge Bethany Baptist Church; Monkstown Baptist Church; Agape Fellowship; Deaf Christian Fellowship: Ballycraigy Congregational, Carnmoney Presbyterian, Kilbride Presbyterian Churches and various schools. Threads, Ballycarry. Individual ladies also assisted: Sisters Barbara, Alison, Iris, Patsy, Margaret.

GOD IS MOST GLORIFIED IN US WHEN WE ARE MOST SATISFIED IN HIM. (John Piper).

Shirley, November 28^th, 2023.  42b Bernice Road, Newtownabbey, Co. Antrim, BT36 4QZ.

Alistair Begg wrote. ‘He hears the cries of the sorrowful, and He comforts them, not only in an earthly, temporal sense but also in a final, perfect, and eternal way, by offering Himself as the means of salvation to all who believe. Your King is not merely infinitely powerful; He is infinitely compassionate. And the combination of these two qualities in Him is sufficient to bring you through every sadness and grief of this world, until you stand in His presence and He wipes every tear from your eye.’

Last month I wrote informing you of a new patient:  Andreea (18) is a new cancer patient. Her condition is now terminal and she is lovingly cared for by one of her sisters. This family faces deep pain and hardship as Andreea has another sibling who is very ill; an exhausted mother takes care of her. It is a very touching situation; the family have endured hardship and suffering and are in the depths of despair. Seasons of the heart are changing rapidly in this precious family. The autumn leaves fall quickly as Mum cares for one daughter while another daughter is heartbroken, knowing she may lose both her precious daughters. Exhausted, at the close of a day, yet accepting without complaint, there is courage required as the dawn breaks for yet another new day. With all this in mind, I pray the Lord will speak words of comfort and that His peace will calm this overwhelming storm.  Sadly, Andreea passed away a few days later.  Please pray the Lord will carry this family through these days of deep, deep sadness.

Christian (13) was diagnosed with cancer one year ago. His condition is worsening. Christian is unable to function by himself, being totally dependent upon his parents.  His sister is heartbroken as she watches her brother’s condition deteriorate.  Christian suffers so much; watching her ‘little brother’ suffer has become unbearable.

Pety (17) has a rare syndrome.  He is confined to a wheelchair totally dependent upon his parents.  Recently, his father began to feel unwell, there are concerns regarding an oncological disease. This is a very precious family, who, with a quiet heart embrace the very depth of ongoing suffering.

Aurel is a patient with pancreatic cancer who also suffers from dementia. Owing to his dementia, he often displays aggressive behaviour towards his wife and daughter who lovingly care for him.  Since his cancer diagnosis has evolved, he is no longer able to walk without assistance; his dementia is making him agitated and he very often leaves the bed totally unaided.   During a recent attempt, Aurel suffered a serious fall resulting in a broken arm.  Pray for his wife and daughter; taking care of him has become a difficult call of duty.

Voichita is a patient diagnosed with breast cancer. She lives alone, dependant on a few friends and relatives to care for her. She had a son who died three years ago during the pandemic.  After suffering a stroke, her son was totally bedridden for a period of seven years. Shortly after her son’s death, her husband died too, overwhelmed by the loss of his beloved son, life had lost its meaning.  Volchita is totally alone with her memories, no husband to comfort her, no son to reassure her. Now the patient is facing her illness alone while still suffering from the sudden death of her beloved husband and son.  Loneliness is real, at times the quietness can be deafening.  Remember her.

Reghina is another patient suffering from breast cancer who also lives alone. She too is a widow. She does have one son but he lives abroad.  Her young nephew has accepted responsibility to care for his beloved aunt.   However, recently, her nephew’s wife was also diagnosed with cancer which is now making it virtually impossible to care for his wife and aunt. Reghina who is totally alone in her apartment, now has no other choice but to rely on the help of her neighbours and the Hospice team, Last night I found myself sharing with a friend about those waiting on the doorbell to ring, the telephone to ring. These are the times I wish I could do so much more and the reason shoeboxes for the elderly are being prepared and sent to these precious people who feel forgotten.  Please don’t forget them.  

Simona (25) gave birth to her third child on 12th October 2023 after suffering the trauma of three miscarriages.  Baby Parascheva was born thirty-seven weeks into her mother’s pregnancy, resulting in severe health issues.  Her birth weight was 1.9 kilos and she was unable to breathe normally. Baby Parascheva remains in intensive care, her tiny lungs are unable to provide the required level of oxygen The doctors have outlined the seriousness of her condition, stating the baby may not survive.  Decisions will have to be made, pray for sustaining grace and a calmness of heart. A miracle.

Sorina has two children aged six and two. Sorina has a low immune system and in need of nourishment as she has many ongoing health issues. She is eighteen weeks pregnant and has requested our support in prayer as she fears she may be at risk of losing this much wanted baby.  May God touch her heart, give her peace and make her trust in His power who is Lord and Sovereign above all.

Ionela is a young teenager of eighteen. She is pregnant and after facing a miscarriage last year is fearful, she may lose this baby also. We, at Iocebed, have assisted with the finance for the required medical tests and recommended treatment. May the Lord become real and personal to this venerable young lady.

Claudia is a single mother with two adorable little girls of nine and six.  Claudia is broken in spirit and broken in heart.  Living in the depths of poverty, Claudia was offered the opportunity of a three-month contract abroad.  Social Services have taken her girls into their care, with Claudia now facing a legal battle to bring her beloved daughters back home.  The date of the court proceedings has been set; the trial will be also a trial of a mother’s heart.  Claudia has paid a high price in order to purchase a loaf of bread.  Choices we make out of love can bring pain.

Alexandra (17) is in her final year in high school.  She and her sister Ema (16) commute two hours to and from Oradea each day. The support from our feeding programmes makes it possible for the girls to have the opportunity to receive an education. We offer food, hygiene, clothing, and our shoe harvest and backpacks have been a blessing to so many families.  But we need to go further. Their mother who suffers from various health issues is now mentally and physically strong enough to work part time taking care of an elderly lady.  Their father has undergone a series of chemotherapy and radiotherapy treatments.  This precious family need our support in prayer, as after invasive investigations it would appear their beloved father is now living his final days on this earthly scene of time. As we care for their day-to-day needs, may they see the love of God displayed through even the smallest detail.

Alexa (19) is learning well at university; her aim is to excel in her studies of graphic design as she has full responsibility to care for her grandparents and her mother who suffers from a disability.  The family live together on the outskirts of Oradea in a one-bedroom house. Many young teenagers enjoy the space of their own bedroom; for this family, one-bedroom sleeps four people.  Pray as we serve in love that they will enquire of the One who provides, who cares, whose love is deeper than any sea. 

Iasmina (17) is now in her last year at high school. She had many health problems as a child and teenager but it didn’t stop her burning desire to learn well and receive an education. Transport is virtually non-existent in her village yet in her determination to succeed, transport can always be found.  lasmina is very weak and introverted, she does not enjoy the blessing of friendships.  Recently, her mother had to undergo life-saving surgery and this has left its mark of fear and uncertainty, she has anxious thoughts regarding her future.  This young teenager should be free of care – please remember her.

I cannot explain why so many of my precious patients, families, children suffer such pain.  Each monthly journal of my heart continues to be filled with pain, sorrow, grief, suffering.  It breaks my heart writing of the realities of those I have come to love.  But, this one thing I know is that whatever is in the cup the Lord has given into my hand to drink, I sip with a quiet heart.  I have no explanation, nor can I give one as to why many must walk such paths of suffering.  Not one of us is a stranger to suffering in one form or another and so we must remember those whose lives know nothing of the softness of love, only the hardship of pain. Please pray many will find the One whom they can trust in every situation.  May they hear the softness of His voice saying: ‘Come, let us walk this path together’.

As I conclude a much shorter report, ‘Thank you’ for your prayers.  Last week, I felt I was facing the ‘unknown’.  Looking back, I trace the hand of God in every aspect of my surgery.  A period of six weeks convalescence is required, but it is even in the midst of our pain, we come to know the Lord in a different format. The apostle Paul tells us to give thanks in everything. It is not the experiences of our lives that change us, it is our response. 

Sincerely, Shirley, Wednesday, October 25, 2023

42B BERNICE ROAD. BT36 4QZ.